Tommy,
I am very picky too, however if you look at the guys I have dated in the past and you will find that there is at least one box on my 'must have' list that is not checked. However with your age and looks the world is your oyster!!
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Nutting wrong with being picky!
Gotta admit i love the Justin Bieber look!
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Its o.k to be picky , just dont be surprised if the guy you end up dating is completely different from what you would normally go for . Strange things come in different packages and disguises. You are young and you have years ahead of you , so experiment and have some fun pal . good luck in your hunt for Mr Right and have plenty of fun along the way
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Hey man I totally can relate to you. I'm so picky. But you, like me are very young. We do have a long time to get a BF. And at least we know what we want. When I first came out I went out with guys just cos they were gay. I found myself quickly unattracted to these guys and it didn't go so well for me or them.
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With regarding my past, it allows me to be picky.
I prefer men who are mature, and aren't into games and playing. I also prefer if the man knows exactly what he wants, and those wants coincide with mine (meaning, the ultimate goal of a monogamous LTR/partnership). I don't want someone who is going to exploit all my flaws, but embrace them and work with me on them, because I have no problems doing the same. I don't want someone who is going to tell me one thing, and then mean another... or tell me they are so into me, and then draw back oh so quickly and compare me to their past. I'm also not down with aggressiveness, judgement, excessive sarcasm, liars, cheaters, or those who can't try to put trust in me. I'm also all about open and honest communication, and the most important thing is how you present yourself to me when we talk. I tend to be easily approachable, very open-minded, non-judgemental, and I have no problems discussing whatever it is on your mind - work, personal issues, etc. I get easily bothered if that other person that is supposed to be in my life is not open with me, has a trust issue with me, is jealous of me in any way, or draws away from me. I am affectionate, I have no problems with cuddle time on the couch, or in the bedroom, love holding hands in the car, and just overall being there for one another - for good and bad.
On the flipside, I'm a very balanced person in as many areas of my life as possible - relationship time and alone time especially. When we're together, lets do what we want, but when I need alone time, don't cling on me! I'm just working on stuff, or just wanting some time to relax and take some 'me' time. And I would want a person who does the same.
For physical, I like the bearish types - beefy, hairy chest, nice facial hair, short hair on top. I'm really not into overly obese, nor am I into the skinny/twink crowd. I also tend to go for older than myself (at least 35-40, although age is but a number, I look more at maturity), as I have found those younger than me just too aggressive. Height not an issue, I prefer to focus on what is in your mind, and in your heart.
Crikey, sounding like a personals ad all of a sudden, LOL - but that is me in a nutshell.
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J, if that were a personal ad I would be responding!
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i am the same im proper picky! its annoys me :mad:
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mile: " have fun searchin though
