I'm kind of picky..

[72jay]

As others have said , nothing wrong with being picky...
(Personally i think i'd be very picky LOL but IDK i've never met anyone anyone)

[Geminight]

With regarding my past, it allows me to be picky.

I prefer men who are mature, and aren't into games and playing. I also prefer if the man knows exactly what he wants, and those wants coincide with mine (meaning, the ultimate goal of a monogamous LTR/partnership). I don't want someone who is going to exploit all my flaws, but embrace them and work with me on them, because I have no problems doing the same. I don't want someone who is going to tell me one thing, and then mean another... or tell me they are so into me, and then draw back oh so quickly and compare me to their past. I'm also not down with aggressiveness, judgement, excessive sarcasm, liars, cheaters, or those who can't try to put trust in me. I'm also all about open and honest communication, and the most important thing is how you present yourself to me when we talk. I tend to be easily approachable, very open-minded, non-judgemental, and I have no problems discussing whatever it is on your mind - work, personal issues, etc. I get easily bothered if that other person that is supposed to be in my life is not open with me, has a trust issue with me, is jealous of me in any way, or draws away from me. I am affectionate, I have no problems with cuddle time on the couch, or in the bedroom, love holding hands in the car, and just overall being there for one another - for good and bad.

On the flipside, I'm a very balanced person in as many areas of my life as possible - relationship time and alone time especially. When we're together, lets do what we want, but when I need alone time, don't cling on me! I'm just working on stuff, or just wanting some time to relax and take some 'me' time. And I would want a person who does the same.

For physical, I like the bearish types - beefy, hairy chest, nice facial hair, short hair on top. I'm really not into overly obese, nor am I into the skinny/twink crowd. I also tend to go for older than myself (at least 35-40, although age is but a number, I look more at maturity), as I have found those younger than me just too aggressive. Height not an issue, I prefer to focus on what is in your mind, and in your heart.

Crikey, sounding like a personals ad all of a sudden, LOL - but that is me in a nutshell.

Preach it brotha!

[Daniel6]

I can, and I will!

because you are too picky???