soo confused

[marshlander]

At thirty-one it's probably not a phase. Embrace your inner queen, honey

Take a deep breath ... relax ... enjoy.

Good luck.

[drewnyc7]

someone told me that this is just sexual lust. and that its natural. i just dont understand??? why now? why all of a sudden im addicted to gay porn, the sight of cock, why do i have crazy fantasies about men, bareback sex... i was always into women.. im getting more confused.. my friends are driving me nuts.. help

[SlipknotRlZZ]

Second puberty? Why not now? life is full of surprises and unexpected turns and twists...Give in to whatever will make you happy and do not hold back. :]

[Pickles]

People can go through homosexual phases. I don't think there is a definate straight or gay. Myself, I go through hetrosexual phases- where the thought of women is...attractive. Try not to put a label on it my friend. The labels is what is causing you the confusion. If you feel the need to interact with a man then give it a try. If you don't like it then you can probably just say that you take notions. Your sexuality doesn't change you as a person. Don't be in a rush to figue yourself out, let life show you what you are.

Matthew.

[marshlander]

...Myself, I go through hetrosexual phases- where the thought of women is...attractive. ...

At the age of fifteen I may have found a hole in a plank of wood was ... attractive ... once or twice :redface: Hormones drive us to do odd things!

It is perfectly normal to want to attach labels. It's part of how we make sense of things.

[drewnyc7]

idk... im trying.. its just odd how all of a sudden im having such lust and temptation for men and gay sex...

[Pickles]

Marsh- yu ppear to love quoting me, you really do over analyse everything I say LOL

drewnyc- Like I said- try it out. And you're only gay when you can honestly tell yourself that you are... so don't be hasty about it.

[James]

wow, look at all the good advice, but remember if he has a slight attraction to girls he maybe bi also, jim

[drewnyc7]

yeah,, thanx for the advice.. its that lately all of a sudden i only get turned on by gay porn. how did this happen all of sudden. i want to try it so bad. has anyone been through this before?? just the word turns me on...

[marshlander]

Marsh- yu ppear to love quoting me, you really do over analyse everything I say ...

Hmm, I hadn't noticed. It was not my intention to make you feel so special If someone writes something that catches my eye I'll make a comment if I can think of something to write. I don't think of that as over-analysis. On here it's called "discussion".

Whatever you may think I don't love quoting you in particular, it's just a convention on here to make it easier to follow a discussion. You could make it easier for me if you like by being a tad more boring :tongue: