help please

[nickpiece]

Im 17 and have been having random feelings of attraction towards men. These feeling go on for about 2 days and then seem to go away. The weird thing is i never have sexually feelings or thoughts about anyone i know or have even met of the same sex. It always seems like a fantasy of mine, because i only get aroused to either porn or just the thought in my head. When i was in my early teen years i used to steal my sister's thongs and wear them because they felt good, i even went as far as lubing up and sticking bananas and household objects up my . . . you know. Have had fantasies about everything you could possible do with the same sex (blow jobs, rim jobs, receiving anal, and etc.) but i have never actually been with someone of the same sex. Like i said before i only have these fantasies about 2 days a month then i am attracted to women. I have people tell me Im gay, Im confused, or that im just aroused by sex. If anyone could please help me out i want to know what is going on.



(oh and im in those 2 days =))

[marshlander]

Being 17 it could just be that you're normally horny! It's certainly normal to entertain a range of interests and curiosities as we grow up and mature into sexual beings. You don't tell us anything about your background. Do you live in a family that has a particular view of gays? If so you may turn out to be repressing your gay self most of the time. Mother Nature will get her own way eventually though. Being gay is about more than sticking carrots up your ass. It may take meeting and falling in love with someone to work out how you really feel. While you're flipping around like this you might just want to be a bit cautious about getting into a serious relationship commitment. That has unhappiness potential written all over it. Of course you may also decide you are bisexual. Take time to enjoy the journey. There's no hurry to label yourself.

[peterinmalaga]

The weird thing is i never have sexually feelings or thoughts about anyone i know or have even met of the same sex. It always seems like a fantasy of mine, because i only get aroused to either porn or just the thought in my head.
(oh and im in those 2 days =))

I should probably post this in the Confessions thread as a problem of mine!
I divide people into 2 categories: friends and not friends.
I am incapable of having sex with a friend and always have been. So in the past, when I met a potential partner, I had to have sex with them pretty soon, before they became a friend! My problem has it's compensations, I won't deny.
Most of us like porn, I think, so no surprise there.

[matty7]

why not just think maybe ur bi for a bit, see how that works , ur not alone so trust me on that one and we all have to decover it at some point m8