What does it mean?
09-10-2007, 08:24 PM
Ok... so me and this guy named Kevin went out for about 2 months before he broke up with me. It was the night before I was leaving for France for a month, and obviously I was devistated.
So a month went by and I came home from France. We had talked a little bit here and there when I was on vacation.
Well, one night we were talking online and I told him how I felt about him. That I still really liked him a lot and missed him. Come to find out he says that he missed me too and he still has strong feelings for me. But he doesn't want a relationship right now. He said that he already hurt me once, and doesnt want the same thing to happen again.
So we start talking about if we should be sexually involved or not and what our relationship status would be if we were sexually active. Finally, we came to the conclusion that we did want to do stuff with each other and that we were gonna be affectionate with each other in public, but we weren't going to have the status of being boyfriends. I don't get it, if we both like each other then why don't we just both go out?
Then the other day I went over to his house to workout, but we ended up in his bed. and we made out and did other things for hours. I just think that usually when you make out with someone you like them and want to go out, but I could be wrong!!!
So, i was just wondering what you guys thought about it? I really like him and it seems like he likes me, but i dont know. He didn't have the best childhood, and i think that may be one of the reasons that he doesnt want to get attached to me... That, and I leave for college at the end of this school year. Maybe that has something to do with it.
He has been going to the local community college for the second year now. Maybe he doesnt want to start something when he knows that it might have to end when I go to college. I just think we could work it out. I really can't imagine being with a better guy right now.
So a month went by and I came home from France. We had talked a little bit here and there when I was on vacation.
Well, one night we were talking online and I told him how I felt about him. That I still really liked him a lot and missed him. Come to find out he says that he missed me too and he still has strong feelings for me. But he doesn't want a relationship right now. He said that he already hurt me once, and doesnt want the same thing to happen again.
So we start talking about if we should be sexually involved or not and what our relationship status would be if we were sexually active. Finally, we came to the conclusion that we did want to do stuff with each other and that we were gonna be affectionate with each other in public, but we weren't going to have the status of being boyfriends. I don't get it, if we both like each other then why don't we just both go out?
Then the other day I went over to his house to workout, but we ended up in his bed. and we made out and did other things for hours. I just think that usually when you make out with someone you like them and want to go out, but I could be wrong!!!
So, i was just wondering what you guys thought about it? I really like him and it seems like he likes me, but i dont know. He didn't have the best childhood, and i think that may be one of the reasons that he doesnt want to get attached to me... That, and I leave for college at the end of this school year. Maybe that has something to do with it.
He has been going to the local community college for the second year now. Maybe he doesnt want to start something when he knows that it might have to end when I go to college. I just think we could work it out. I really can't imagine being with a better guy right now.
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