Shameful Thoughts

[Anonymous]

That's not a cure, that's a condemnation!

Call it what you want, but there's no denying that it works.

[princealbertofb]

Good for you then, bro. Well, maybe not good, but not as bad. I wonder how sad it must be to be a true pedophile. Like, being attracted to nothing else.

I have known a few over the internet in a social network similar to facebook. There was community of, say, unactive pedophiles... people who couldn't live normal lives because they were attracted solely to children - some of them, even babies!

It's say to say "it's sick, just shoot their heads"... but in the end, they obviously have no choice on the matter. It is sick, but also sad. It's like being gay in a place and time where there's a death penalty for it.

Just a reminder, Tuco, there are places in the world where being gay has a death penalty on it...

[jimcrackcorn]

As a medical diagnosis, pedophilia (or paedophilia) is typically defined as a psychiatric disorder in adults or late adolescents (persons age 16 and older) characterized by a primary or exclusive sexual interest in prepubescent children (generally age 13 years or younger,

Pat Robertson is at it again, making outrageous homophobic statements on his Christian Broadcasting Network, linking the legalization of same-sex marriage to not only polygamy and child molestation, but also to bestiality and pedophilia.

The slippery slope scenario is hogwash at best. Its a attempt for anti-gay groups to prevent the lgbt communtiy from getting equal rights. They are trying to bully and scare people into thinking all hell is going to break loose if the LGBT community is granted equal rights. Here is why the slippery slope argument wont hold water in the long run:

For one pedophilia is classified as a mental disorder in adults. Nobody can be born with it. The pro-pedophile camp would have show evidence to the contrary to convince civilized morally upright society that they arent sickos. Allot of changes in attitudes by society at large and research would have to take place before they would even think about considering legalizing pedophilia. Politicians are douche bags but any politician running for office would not touch the idea of supporting legalizing pedophilia with a hundred foot pole. It would be political suicide. If an court had enough balls to legalize it then you can expect anarchy to reign by way of riots and protest in the streets.

Second of all no responsible parent is going to let a pedophile within a mile of there kid. You could almost count on people getting beat down for even suggesting that they want to have sex with a persons child. Parents are already protective of there teens when they start dating. Imagine how protective they will be of a five year old. As for incestuous abuse the current child abuse laws would still apply much like a parent cant legally beat there child right now. Sexual act's performed on a child cause physical and mental harm to them. The pedophiles would have a hard time getting around child welfare laws to boot.

As for polygamist I could see them trying to gain equality in the future. However that would be at least 50 year off before they could think about gaining any ground. As for besiality I think the stigma attached to it would be a big enough deterrent. If not then you still have animal cruelty laws on the books that would have to be overturned. Also an animal cant consent to sexual intercourse so it would be rape.

I agree, legalized pedophilia will not happen.

What's surprising is the "born that way" argument isn't used by gay groups to gain equality. There is no absolute proof that people are born gay, just as there's no absolute proof that heterosexuals are genetically predisposed to be straight. Scientist haven't been able to determine (beyond a doubt) what triggers human sexual orientation, and without definitive proof - the "born that way" argument cannot withstand scrutiny in a court of law.

Back in the 70's a international gay group accepted the NAMBLA organization into it's flock. The International Lesbian and Gay Association ( ILGA) severed it's ties with NAMBLA in 1993 but not before the damage had been done to it's reputation. To this day, anti-gay organizations use this tid-bit of information against us.

What can be worrisome is that at some point in time you may have a weak moment and slip up. If you do, lie and tell them your straight!!!!!! We have enough problems being associated with NAMBLA as it is.... Just joking,,, but don't slip up.....

[eastofeden]

Just an FYI for the record...men who molest boys are NOT gay anymore than men who molest girls are straight..they are pedophiles and I have no idea why they are considered part of the "gay community" because you damn sure would not consider the male/female molester part of the "straight community"....the act of pedophilia as in any act where there are not consenting adult humans involved is an act of rape...which is an act of power and control....not "sex".

[Tuco]

Just a reminder, Tuco, there are places in the world where being gay has a death penalty on it...

I'm aware of that and was referring to these places

[MysteriousBoy]

Maybe you're beating yourself up too much about this?
At the end of the day, although these thoughts aren't good thoughts to be having, you said yourself you would never ever act upon them and that's the REAL difference. You know where to draw the line, you are good and decent enough never to do carry out an act like that.
I think we all have had or do have sick thoughts in our head that we would never carry out. You choose not to entertain these thoughts, so really you are harmless.

Unless it's something that really affects your life and you're scared you may one day lose control (in which case I think you should seek some sort of counselling or something and see where this desire to be in control of something weaker than yourself comes from) then I wouldn't worry about it too much.

[marshlander]

Good sense there, MB

[Dreamer]

Let me first start out by saying Im in no way shape or form defending the sexual exploitation of children. People who sexually exploit children by way of child porn, rape and molestation deserve to be executed on the spot. I have seen what such acts do to the victims and it causes them lasting psychological damage beyond comprehension.

With that said however I must confess as a adult male struggle with pedophilia-ish thoughts and tendencies on ocassion . I am attracted to adults as well and not exclusively drawn to children. I am extremely ashamed of such thoughts. I dont know where these thoughts come from. I believe they have to do with having power and control over something weaker then myself. Also my own sexual repression ties into the scheme of things along with other mental disorders I suffer from. A pedophile doesnt have a choice in there attraction HOWEVER they do have a choice if they choose to entertain such thoughts and act on there desires.
As respectable adult human being I practice self control. I have NEVER laid a hand on a child and have no intention on doing so in the future. Also when such thoughts creep up in my head I choose to not entertain them and I choose to think of something else instead. I love children more than words can acknowledge however that is why I will NOT act on my desires or entertain such thoughts. If I ever did cross that line and acted on my thoughts I would more than likely kill myself because the guilt and shame I would feel would overwhelm me.

If you think being gay has an big stigma attached to it then try confiding in someone you are attracted to kids. The general public only hears about pedophiles when they have offended and the media reports such crimes to the public. Please keep in mind though people are capable of self control and not all pedophiles are out to hurt children. Let the stone throwing and bashing commence.:frown:

First of all, pedophilia is a mental illness with no cure. You'll always be like that for the rest of your life. Meaning at one point in your life you probably will attempt to deflower the innocence of a child, regardless of how strongly you vow to never engage in such a horrific act. You are NOT a respectable human being if you have thoughts of hurting children, EVEN IF you don't act out your filthy desires. Self control doesn't mean shit! You have the potential, no matter what, to defile a child. Therefore, I find it suitable for you to kill yourself now, before someone else does it for you.

Secondly, this is a gay forum, not a pedophile forum! Take your ass elsewhere! You are sick and twisted, you need to be eliminated. As a victim of sexual childhood abuse myself, I have no sympathy for you. You're fucked up in the head. If I ever knew someone that ruined a child's life like that, I'd kill them with my bare hands! I'd gladly throw away my life to save anothers! Prison would be an honor if it meant I had the chance to kill a psychopath like you! For just thinking about being sexual with a child, you deserve to be tortured until a slow painful death takes you out! The average pedophile molests thousands of kids before ever being caught. Most of them never are.

Lastly, fuck you all whom had even taken the time to engage in a lighthearted chat with this freak, and to actually give him respect for sharing his rancid potential, disgusting! You are just as fucked up as he is!

Honestly, I don't believe you've never touched a child. Pedophiles are the BIGGEST liars, and the BEST manipulators. How dare you try to equate a monster like you to an everyday person! How dare you attempt to rationalize your thoughts of touching children, and defending other pedophiles in general, just because they may not act out right away! You probably have a HUGE kiddie porn collection on your computer. I hope someone has reported you! You're nothing like a normal person. You'll burn in hell for those you have broken, or will destroy in the future.

[posterpicture]

Honestly, I don't believe you've never touched a child. Pedophiles are the BIGGEST liars, and the BEST manipulators. How dare you try to equate a monster like you to an everyday person! How dare you attempt to rationalize your thoughts of touching children, and defending other pedophiles in general, just because they may not act out right away! You probably have a HUGE kiddie porn collection on your computer. I hope someone has reported you! You're nothing like a normal person. You'll burn in hell for those you have broken, or will destroy in the future.

And you are the biggest hater I have ever seen in this forum. Haters are just as bad as what they hate. Maybe worse.

[fredv3b]

Dreamer,

Two suggestions for you:-

1. Read what the original poster has stated about what he has not and will not do.

2. Don't post abuse.