01-05-2011, 06:45 AM
Alright so. I have been a bottom for quite some time and have had some embarrassing experiences with my partners :frown:. My first time wasn't bad. I mean, 8 inches your first time sorta hurts ;p. the second time was okay also. But then, the third time, ohh my god. I can't believe I leaked! I got so upset. That was such a turn off for me. I'm sure it was a turn off for him also . He told me it happens from time to time. But I knew that there was someway to prevent it from happening again. So I decided to experiment on myself.
The best way to combat this is to, before sex use an enema (Anal douche). I recommend using "Fleet" brand. Which can be purchased at many stores or online if you're not comfortable with buying one over the counter (I also hear that when the product is used up you can refill the enema with warm water and will have the same effect).
To enema. I would lay on my side and put some lube on the tip of the product, slowly insert the tip, and squeeze about half of the contents into the anus. I would suggest squirting a little, take a little break, squirt a little, and so on.
Then I would shake my pelvis as a washing machine does clothes (for a minute or so). Swish everything around. Also holding your legs into the air for about 15 seconds will help. Soon you will feel the need to release, go take the dump. (Note: An enema's recommended use once every 24 hours, doing more within that time period can do damage!)
Now, the colon is the body's dumpster, it's not going to be completely clean. But at least you wont be giving your partner any surprises lol. You are ready to take it to the back door. Don't forget to be safe, go slow, and use a generous portion of lube.
Hope this was helpful to most of you beginners ;P.
The best way to combat this is to, before sex use an enema (Anal douche). I recommend using "Fleet" brand. Which can be purchased at many stores or online if you're not comfortable with buying one over the counter (I also hear that when the product is used up you can refill the enema with warm water and will have the same effect).
To enema. I would lay on my side and put some lube on the tip of the product, slowly insert the tip, and squeeze about half of the contents into the anus. I would suggest squirting a little, take a little break, squirt a little, and so on.
Then I would shake my pelvis as a washing machine does clothes (for a minute or so). Swish everything around. Also holding your legs into the air for about 15 seconds will help. Soon you will feel the need to release, go take the dump. (Note: An enema's recommended use once every 24 hours, doing more within that time period can do damage!)
Now, the colon is the body's dumpster, it's not going to be completely clean. But at least you wont be giving your partner any surprises lol. You are ready to take it to the back door. Don't forget to be safe, go slow, and use a generous portion of lube.
Hope this was helpful to most of you beginners ;P.