01-22-2011, 09:13 AM
So today is my first time coming out to a straight friend who is in the same school with me.
So I moved to my current school last semester and I made friend with her roommate and that was how I met her. Today I was planning on coming out to both of them but the another girl is out of town. I hesitated at first but I decided to live a more honest live from now so I did it. First when I came over, the girl thought I wanted to date her or something because I choose to come when no one was at home but her.
So we were in the kitchen cooking together, and I suddenly asked her "so are you liberal or conservative?". She told me that she was neither because she did not have reason to care that much. So I told her that I am liberal and I have many reason to care about that, one of the main reason is I am gay.
She took it very well. There was no awkward silence, or anything like that. She even tried to make me feel better by telling me that she had gay friend too. ( well, which happened to be one of the guy I had a crush on, but he did not like me ).
I also apologized to her that I did not tell her earlier because I did not want to loose a friend. She told me directly that "you would not loose any friend, or at least you will not loose me as a friend."
The rest of the evening was greater than ever. We watched Hair Spray together, and gossiped about how cute Zac Efron was. :eek: It just feels really great :biggrin:
So I moved to my current school last semester and I made friend with her roommate and that was how I met her. Today I was planning on coming out to both of them but the another girl is out of town. I hesitated at first but I decided to live a more honest live from now so I did it. First when I came over, the girl thought I wanted to date her or something because I choose to come when no one was at home but her.
So we were in the kitchen cooking together, and I suddenly asked her "so are you liberal or conservative?". She told me that she was neither because she did not have reason to care that much. So I told her that I am liberal and I have many reason to care about that, one of the main reason is I am gay.
She took it very well. There was no awkward silence, or anything like that. She even tried to make me feel better by telling me that she had gay friend too. ( well, which happened to be one of the guy I had a crush on, but he did not like me ).
I also apologized to her that I did not tell her earlier because I did not want to loose a friend. She told me directly that "you would not loose any friend, or at least you will not loose me as a friend."
The rest of the evening was greater than ever. We watched Hair Spray together, and gossiped about how cute Zac Efron was. :eek: It just feels really great :biggrin:
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Leo
