01-27-2011, 09:17 AM
Long story short. I am 22, still living at home/finishing college/figuring out career/work,etc.....
A little background - most my family is religious-parents, all my cousins, etc.... No one related to me from first/second cousins are gay or at least honest about it. Simply put though i am not even questioning to ever come out to my parents at the moment. I just think they wouldn't know what to think of it and my moms pretty crazy lol so that woldn't go good ether.
I have a few cousins tho i may be open to tell when i am ready and living out of my house, also i know my older brother knows homosexuality is normal and doesn't really care- so if i ever came out to cousins id prob. tell him too and maybe one of my younger brothers, but it still feels weird. Its a very private thing to me right now. I just don't know how to tell the people i know that boys make me horny, lol. Even though i know its normal.
Put simply though , i have no interested to be singled out or get thrown into peoples stupid ass religious or personal politics, so honestly i dont care so much but i guess at some point ill probably have to tell someone related to me or something once im totally financially independent though, definetely not yet.
Also i guess in coming out to myself,i started getting off to boys in porn probably about a year or at least a couple months back and overtime i realized that i am not interested in women, in porn or in real life for the most part.
Otherwise i have a boyfriend i met online/weve been talking, have similar situation, we have feelingd for each other but were taking as it goes so i dont really want to talk about that now but at least i have one friend i can share and talk about with.
Well thats it for now i guess. I don't know if theres really a point of this thread, but i guess it would be interesting to hear if anyone else has been through a situation similar to mine and maybe even how it's evolved since then if you'd like to share.
Thanks for reading.
A little background - most my family is religious-parents, all my cousins, etc.... No one related to me from first/second cousins are gay or at least honest about it. Simply put though i am not even questioning to ever come out to my parents at the moment. I just think they wouldn't know what to think of it and my moms pretty crazy lol so that woldn't go good ether.
I have a few cousins tho i may be open to tell when i am ready and living out of my house, also i know my older brother knows homosexuality is normal and doesn't really care- so if i ever came out to cousins id prob. tell him too and maybe one of my younger brothers, but it still feels weird. Its a very private thing to me right now. I just don't know how to tell the people i know that boys make me horny, lol. Even though i know its normal.
Put simply though , i have no interested to be singled out or get thrown into peoples stupid ass religious or personal politics, so honestly i dont care so much but i guess at some point ill probably have to tell someone related to me or something once im totally financially independent though, definetely not yet.
Also i guess in coming out to myself,i started getting off to boys in porn probably about a year or at least a couple months back and overtime i realized that i am not interested in women, in porn or in real life for the most part.
Otherwise i have a boyfriend i met online/weve been talking, have similar situation, we have feelingd for each other but were taking as it goes so i dont really want to talk about that now but at least i have one friend i can share and talk about with.
Well thats it for now i guess. I don't know if theres really a point of this thread, but i guess it would be interesting to hear if anyone else has been through a situation similar to mine and maybe even how it's evolved since then if you'd like to share.
Thanks for reading.