Need some advice

[Newbie]

Well I'm new to this forum but I wanted to join to get some advice. I am not sure if I'm gay or not. I have looked at both gay and straight porn, but both turn me on. Would I be bi then? Some friendly advice would be much appreciated.

[SlipknotRlZZ]

Well, you are what you want to be and no labels can fully grasp that, but...yeah, watching straight and gay porn would make you Bi. If that's okay with you. :]

[Ultra]

First off... hi, welcome to the forum! It's up to you... chances are you're bisexual. I'm truly a bisexual, but I'm much more comfy with calling myself gay.

[TyD]

Yes, I would like to think so if you want to put a label on it as what slipknotrizz said. And welcome.

[cry0s]

I guess I don't have anything else to add as they've pretty much summed it up lol.

Honestly, don't put much thought into it and it all will eventually fall into place.

[Circuit]

You are still a young man with plenty of time to make your mind up which way you want to go. It is not necessary to carry a label round with you telling the world about your sexuality, the thing is to do what you feel most comfortable with. A teenage boy pumped full of testosterone is bound to find aanything sexually provocative somewhat attractive; but it is the people you meet and how you react with them that is important. Good luck and best wishes...

[simon]

try and get some women only porn just to check.

[marshlander]

I'd pretty much agree with Circuit except I would reword it slightly. It's not a case of making your mind up to see which way you want to go, but more a case of hanging in there until it all makes sense. I don't think one can use cognitive thought to influence something as basic to the wiring as sexual orientation. That is not to say that you can't conduct a few practical experiments with a variety of willing participants to help you work it out!

The porn thing doesn't necessarily help. I was convinced I was straight for many years. I was completely unaware for most of that period that I never actually paid any heed to the women in the images. Duh!!

You'll know eventually what makes you feel most comfortable and what fits best for you.

Good luck.