Newly out looking for help

[cbe]

Alright. I guess what I want (very quickly) is either some advice based on real life experience from someone who's lived it or from someone who's part of a (collegiate?) gay community. I'm really tired of hoping that people will get the little hints I'm sending. I like a lot of guys but (maybe?) only because I haven't hooked up with anyone of my preferred gender yet. I can recognize that this is the kind of feeling that I'll look back on later, but at the moment I just feel like I'm wasting time and pretty sad, and I'm bewildered as to why everyone else can have what they want but never me. Maybe I'm just asking how to pick up a gay, having never done it before. Or maybe I'm looking for a deeper reasurrance. Either way I'm not used to (And sort of embarassed about) seeking help on the internet, but this is kind of a last resort.

[simon]

gay bar non little hints big ones.

[jamiebfd]

well i cant give any better advice than what has already been said.
good luck though and i hope everything works out for you