fredv3b Wrote:If occasional tears are evidence of something being wrong, then childbirth must be very wrong.
I don't follow your logic here. And I guess I'm actually going to have to explain the "agree with g0ys on anal sex" comment *sigh* .
1. Childbirth isn't "wrong", but nobody (doctors, mothers, husbands, etc) likes it when those tears occur. They are seen as a problem with the birth because it harms the mother. They are not a goal that doctors or mothers aim for; they are viewed as a sign of complication. In other words, child birth, obviously, is not "wrong", but the tears that can occur during that process
are. So that addresses the strange analogy you were trying to make there.
2. I never meant to imply that there was anything "wrong" with anal sex (which is what you're implying right now) to those who enjoy it. When I said I agreed with the g0y stance on anal sex, it was a slightly ridiculous/humorous way of saying "I agree in the sense that I, personally, never want to have anal sex". I DON'T agree that it is totally immoral or that there is something wrong with you if you engage in it. I made it pretty clear in the first section of that post how I felt about the g0ys. I'm just sayin', that it may lead to some serious medical issues with the butthole depending on the situation and frequency. That and it can be painful. If this is not an issue for people who engage in anal sex, than I couldn't care less. If it is pleasurable for you, and if it is the only way you can achieve a true orgasm, then go for it. For me, though, the risk is not worth the reward (and to be clear, NO, I'm not talking about aids). I've experimented with anal using various objects to see if I liked it. Did nothing for me.
Cliff notes: when I said "I agree with their stance on anal sex" I was saying that I don't like anal sex in a subjective way. I don't agree that anal sex is "wrong", or "too effeminate", or any of that garbage. However, it causes some who engage in it pain and other medical problems, so I think I can safely say that it isn't for everybody.