Meeting a new boyfriend

[sam2k51]

Hi im a brand new member, and im really shy, i have been throughout my life. Ive had a few emotional problems after i broke up with my first boyfriend (it didnt end well) so my confidence is literally zero.
Atm feel extrememly lonely and want to find a new boyfriend, ive tried internet sites but that didnt work out very well (one of the guys just didnt seem to be interested and the other one was going really fast and i got scared so i ended it). And i feel too shy about meeting people in bars and stuff. So i dont know what to do. Any ideas?
Thank you for taking the time to read this, i would appreciate any comments

[stu]

How did you meet your first boyfriend? Don't let a few experiences that didn't work out put you off. If you having a few problems will getting into a new relationship help you solve them?

[Dark Angel]

lol love your avatar bwhahahaha, mostly due to loving the anime its from XD so firstly welcome to the forums. but judgeing off your age, you have plenty time to find a boyfriend just give it a little time and I'm sure you'll find someone

[simon]

first try and get over your shyness,everything will be much easier if you could do that,the hard part is how,you could try going to the gym or a group of some sort.

[sam2k51]

Thanks for all the comments. I met my first boyfriend at college, he was a new guy that came into our year, but it didnt end well, he cheated on me which shattered my confidence. but i dont know how i can build it back up again.

Im like that guy whos always quite at college, i mean i have a group of friends, who i act normally around, but during lessons i keep as quiet as possible, thats how bad its been getting.

And i know im young but i still feel lonely, i think its because i know how happy i can be because i was happy when i was with my first bf, until it turned bad.

p.s. That anime is awesome

[jamiebfd]

try going out to clubs and stuff. go with people you feel comfy with.
try get them to ask people for you if your too shy yourself.
all you need is a few beers and your confidence should bloom.
it works for me lol.
or...
come to bradford and meet me hahaha

good luck and welcome btw

[stu]

Your at that age where things are going to be changing. If you are going to uni then been gay is going to be a lot easier and you could join the LGB group. If your not then you can still make gay friends at clubs/bars or places like this.

[sam2k51]

Yeah everything is changing recently, although im not going uni this year atleast. Ive never been to bars and stuff, (ive only just turned 18 in january) so i dont really know what to expect.

[stu]

I was never a fan of going clubbing or going to bars myself. Some people like it some don't. There are some unpleasant characters around these places although I'm sure some are nice as well.

Maybe there might be something at this website to help llgbc.com | Young People's Services

[sam2k51]

wow thanks for that, i didnt even realise there was stuff like this in my area thanks a bunch