What is it about small cocks?

[WillGLA]

Why do so many gay men dislike small cocks? I look at ads on craigslist or gay cruise sites and guys are looking for "hung only" and "no small ones". Is there an inherent problem with smaller cocks or have we been conditioned by porn or society in some way to idolize the big ones?

[simon]

there is a thread on here about cock size,it seems at least on here most prefer average or smaller.

I don't think that some dates sites are the best place to get a general idea of what people prefer.

[East]

Why do so many gay men dislike small cocks? I look at ads on craigslist or gay cruise sites and guys are looking for "hung only" and "no small ones". Is there an inherent problem with smaller cocks or have we been conditioned by porn or society in some way to idolize the big ones?

Ever watch the males of any species vying to be the dominant male? It is basically the same with every species though there are different litmus tests...it can be the biggest brightest feathers or the strongest or ect ect ect...I think a big cock on a basic level represents dominance and arouses instinct in humans. Is this actual dominance? Perception plays a huge part in reality so you have to ask yourself that question...

Unfortunately alot of men with smaller penises develop weak egos...ego meaning a healthy perception of oneself...and it causes them to feel as though they need to compensate which is kinda f*cked up...also tends to sew the seeds for insecurity if you aren't OK with it.

Asking yourself what dominance actually means to you might save you from going down that road on either side of the highway.

Just my opinion..I could be wrong:biggrin:

[simon]

Ever watch the males of any species vying to be the dominant male? It is basically the same with every species though there are different litmus tests...it can be the biggest brightest feathers or the strongest or ect ect ect...I think a big cock on a basic level represents dominance and arouses instinct in humans. Is this actual dominance? Perception plays a huge part in reality so you have to ask yourself that question...

Unfortunately alot of men with smaller penises develop weak egos...ego meaning a healthy perception of oneself...and it causes them to feel as though they need to compensate which is kinda f*cked up...also tends to sew the seeds for insecurity if you aren't OK with it.

Asking yourself what dominance actually means to you might save you from going down that road on either side of the highway.

Just my opinion..I could be wrong:biggrin:

either that or the guys on some of these dating sites just want a good shagging.

[akboi]

For the sake of my response, I'll be 100% honest and say right now that I'm average sized. I am on one of these "dating" sites, and boys msg me all the time...they want to fuck. However, they ask me my dick size pretty quickly which makes me realize they are just a cock obsessed bottom that wants big dick. I simply block them right then...they are not right for me and I'm not right for them. If a guy doesn't ask that then I'll talk and maybe we will hang out. It seems there are a lot of cock obsessed bottoms on those types of sites which is a turn off anyways...I like versatile guys or bottoms who don't obsess with big dicks or tops. I personally never ask a guys dick size...I'll find out if I end up in bed with him! I have no idea why these bottom boys are so obsessed with big dicks.

[SlipknotRlZZ]

Well, if you are a bottom and you having sex with someone, no strings attached, they probably won't care if you have a small dick. Your boyfriend probably won't care either because, I mean...it's obvious why. So the only people that would care are bottoms who would like to feel the cock that's fucking themblock their wind pipe.

I wouldn't really care. Average IS preferrable, of course, but I believe it's the guy the dick's attached to that is important here. I was in a similar situation a while ago, but I even learned to worship the guy's member.

[zeon]

Why do so many gay men dislike small cocks? I look at ads on craigslist or gay cruise sites and guys are looking for "hung only" and "no small ones". Is there an inherent problem with smaller cocks or have we been conditioned by porn or society in some way to idolize the big ones?

To me its not the size that matters its how you use it that counts... Guys with big dicks tend to behave like wild things possessed and think they are the bees knees when infact they are nothing more in most cases than random bits of shite left on a pavement that no one has taken time to tread in... If i meet a guy and he comes out with... So do u have a big dick i tend to go sorry im small and walk away and find another guy because at the end of the day that signals they are not interested in me they are only interested in my manhood which is the same bit of skin hanging off as what it would be on an ordinary joe bloggs

[Beaux]

I have said it before and I will say it again: I could care less bout how big a guys wang is. I have had excellent lovers who were big and I have had excellent ones that were not big; its the guy not the pecker that counts. That said, I am just a big guy all over (6'4" here) and I am built proportionately. I get hit on a lot and too many guys start out by asking how big I am. When this happens I have to consider a couple of things: 1) like I said, I am physically a large proportioned guy-- some guys are nervous that sex with me could be painful and I respect that and reassure them that I havent lost a lover yet lolz 2) some guys are just obsessed with the size of the pole, and those guys I do not find interesting (they are just after the shag).

[stephanie stephens]

I have never had one that I didn't love. If I could I would adopt them all but it cost to much to feed them.
I already have three layers, at least I get fresh eggs from them. I don't think my neighbors would like to wake up to the crowing.

[marshlander]

Bravo! And who said philanthropy died out with the Victorians