he's having "performance" issues.. :(

[ninja]

hey, i've never been with a guy and if i knew that he was very experienced i'd be a bit intimidated, maybe hes worrying about that it could cause issues. maybe talk to him about it assure him that everything will be fine and if not well theres creams and lubes that can make him last longer.

[Beaux]

It sounds to me like he is feeling a lot of pressure to "preform". Thats pretty common with guys that are inexperienced. My suggestion is to find a time when you guys can really spend a day with each other w/out any interruptions and just lay in bed all day naked watching movies (not porn lol) and eating chips (yes, in bed lol). Fooling around will occure. Tell him he is welcome to do anything to your body that he wants to. Let him get accustomed to feeling you and touching you. Dont be too concerned with "who plzes who", let it be about exploration not about getting off. Just a suggestion, but it has worked for me in the past in similar situations.

[skyler124]

Thanks i will try you suggestions (lol, even chips).

i feel a lil guilty now.. i never rubbed it in or bragged about being more experienced or pressured him about "pleasing me". im really not that shallow (i promise!)

[Beaux]

Thanks i will try you suggestions (lol, even chips).

i feel a lil guilty now.. i never rubbed it in or bragged about being more experienced or pressured him about "pleasing me". im really not that shallow (i promise!)

O I never thought that you would have, but I know that it may have felt to him that he wanted to plz and he probably felt a lot of pressure to do so, especially as he probably hasnt had much of a chance to "learn the ropes" yet. It will all work out, he is just suffering from a case of nerves I am betting.

[skyler124]

what do you think would be the best "position" to try if he is new? like when i was first learning there would positions that were easier for a newbie bottom (me); im not very familiar with top positions to know which is nicer/easier etc.. i ask so when we do get there i can help guide a lil and avoid that "omg this is so awkward; what do i do with my hands" part for him lol

[simon]

what do you think would be the best "position" to try if he is new? like when i was first learning there would positions that were easier for a newbie bottom (me); im not very familiar with top positions to know which is nicer/easier etc.. i ask so when we do get there i can help guide a lil and avoid that "omg this is so awkward; what do i do with my hands" part for him lol

the best position for a new top is any he wants! mate just let it happen, I think you are over thinking this,teaching him which position would be adding more stress,enjoy the fact that he and you will make some mistakes,they too can be fun,just lay back and think of England! (USA might work too).

[skyler124]

lol, i cant help but want it to be perfect for him! lol

it would be a lil weird if i yelled "oh! oh! AMERICA!!!" lmao... i couldnt pull it off, lol.

[simon]

lol, i cant help but want it to be perfect for him! lol

it would be a lil weird if i yelled "oh! oh! AMERICA!!!" lmao... i couldnt pull it off, lol.

next time he cums (too quickly),there is a good chance he enjoyed it!

what part of "think" did you not understand? JK

[skyler124]

do you think its weird to kinda think its "cute" when your boy cums to soon?

[simon]

do you think its weird to kinda think its "cute" when your boy cums to soon?

now your getting the idea :biggrin: total turn on!