hi, got a question

[Lolguy]

I've been with my boyfriend for almost 4 months. We get along great, he's a really nice guy. The issue is he gets hard easily but has a hard time getting off. I'm not insecure about it because he used to it happening, and apparently he has had the same issues in previous relationships.

It's not a make or break thing. I can tell it gets to him though. I was just wondering if anyone else has had the same issue.

I think it's all mental for him, but I would like to get some input.

[Luke14009]

Well......you could try spice it up I if its hard for him to get off then you two have time to use sex games and maybe stuff like that

[fredv3b]

Sounds very likely that he is suffering from a degree of anxiety, it inhibits a guy getting off. I'd suggest you try and make sure he is 100% relaxed and comfortable. Also make sure he knows it's no big deal to you, him fearing that it, at least, might be is guaranteed to generate anxiety.

[East]

There might be a sexual interest that he has that he is afraid of or not aware of...I was alot like that until I understood my true sexual nature a bit more...

[BobInTampa]

Can you give us a bit more information about you both? How old are you? Does your BF have any problem reaching climax thru masturbation? Have you had a discussion about positions? (top, bottom, verse?).

To really help we need alot more information!