How can you tell if a guy wants a relationship or just wants sex?

[SlipknotRlZZ]

By asking him. :]

[tommy24]

Hi Biomegaceu,

Your already reading and will read a lot more advise. My two cents here, since you are asking... If you hit it off great the first time, go out again. But to a different venue. When you ended the last time was there a hug? What were his eyes saying? Did you hold hands?

Ask him if he can meet for coffee or tea before work. Might be short but effective to see his body language. What day off does he have, or if he is in school, what is his schedule. If he works, I wouldn't go their just yet. Let things progress first.

Open communication is the best in any relationship, but sometimes this doesn't happen. Sometimes it does.

Instead of a dinner and movie, what about dinner and sporting event or shopping?

Hope this helps!

Tommy