06-04-2011, 06:08 AM
Of course it's okay to be single!
Before, I used to hate being single, I wanted to be in a relationship and thought that getting into one would fix everything. Until one day I asked myself what needed to be fix and realized that everything stemed from me not loving myself. Yes, I know that's cliche but it's true. I basically wanted someone who would love me and cancel my own doubts about myself.
I don't need that anymore, I've done a lot of stuff and feel like I have a purpose now. From time to time, I still feel a little lonely but then I remember I have a great group of supportive people around me.
From my own experience and from what I've seen around me I've come to realize that some people want to be in a relationship simply because they're insecure.
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Oh geez, this post makes me sounding like I'm pointing fingers. XD
Before, I used to hate being single, I wanted to be in a relationship and thought that getting into one would fix everything. Until one day I asked myself what needed to be fix and realized that everything stemed from me not loving myself. Yes, I know that's cliche but it's true. I basically wanted someone who would love me and cancel my own doubts about myself.
I don't need that anymore, I've done a lot of stuff and feel like I have a purpose now. From time to time, I still feel a little lonely but then I remember I have a great group of supportive people around me.
From my own experience and from what I've seen around me I've come to realize that some people want to be in a relationship simply because they're insecure.
...
Oh geez, this post makes me sounding like I'm pointing fingers. XD