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Is it okay to be single?
#31
Of course it's okay to be single!

Before, I used to hate being single, I wanted to be in a relationship and thought that getting into one would fix everything. Until one day I asked myself what needed to be fix and realized that everything stemed from me not loving myself. Yes, I know that's cliche but it's true. I basically wanted someone who would love me and cancel my own doubts about myself.

I don't need that anymore, I've done a lot of stuff and feel like I have a purpose now. From time to time, I still feel a little lonely but then I remember I have a great group of supportive people around me.

From my own experience and from what I've seen around me I've come to realize that some people want to be in a relationship simply because they're insecure.

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Oh geez, this post makes me sounding like I'm pointing fingers. XD
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#32
Being single is fine. You can't expect to always have that special person in your life. Also I think its not a matter of being singe, its being alone. That unbearable feeling of just wanting someone near, someone to talk to... thats what I think is the real issue to overcome. I've been single my whole life and I don't mind it, but its the times that I wish I could just have someone next to me that really hurts. Thats life though and we have to make do.
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#33
yesConfusedmile:jjjjj im bi though
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#34
If being single makes you happy then just be happy Smile
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#35
It's perfectly OK. I'd love to meet a nice guy, but I find it hard to meet other guys. I'm sure it'll change with life experience.
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