04-01-2011, 05:47 PM
For the sake of your own health, yes you do need to be checked. There is no reason that a young man such as your self should need to be randomly hooking up on craigslist. At your age random hook ups are avaliable everywhere with out a computer (that was a joke).
I am with East on this one, maybe it is that we are a little older and have been around the scene a bit longer, but as far as I am concerned the past is the past (Keeping in mind that STDS are the present and you need to be honest about your std status). We all have a history of one sort or another (and if you dont, you will eventually).
I personally never did the online thing but some of the stuff I did in the first months of my divorce would turn your hair white! It doesnt represent who I am now, but it damn sure had a hand in the shaping of the present incarnation of myself. There is no reason to get all gulit riddled either, done is done and I can only assume that you have grown from the experience. Now you know that isnt what you want and can mark it off the list so to speak.
I am with East on this one, maybe it is that we are a little older and have been around the scene a bit longer, but as far as I am concerned the past is the past (Keeping in mind that STDS are the present and you need to be honest about your std status). We all have a history of one sort or another (and if you dont, you will eventually).
I personally never did the online thing but some of the stuff I did in the first months of my divorce would turn your hair white! It doesnt represent who I am now, but it damn sure had a hand in the shaping of the present incarnation of myself. There is no reason to get all gulit riddled either, done is done and I can only assume that you have grown from the experience. Now you know that isnt what you want and can mark it off the list so to speak.