I'm burned ...
06-06-2011, 09:40 AM
Hey guys, 
I'm so excited I found this forum and anticipating your thoughts on my case ...
mile:
First let me start off by saying this, I'm not a pre-judgemental sort of a person and I don't take things right into my account according to my personal feelings.
One day during my work time (I work in a hotel at the reception) a handsome italian pilot came to check out. All what I can see on his face is his wide grin and his friendly behaviour. I settled his account and we talked about many things during his wait for the rest of his crew to come down. We talked about our places (since we both are from different countries) and our preference as to which type of a person are we: he's more of a town/village guy and I'm more of the same with a tendancy to city life. We talked about football and the italian league and he was interested about it, etc .. the conversation was so nice and long that he did not want to leave even though he could see me that I was busy. All the time, I'm noticing his smile and his constant eye contact, it was mesmerizing!! He looked more like he's interested in discovering me and stuff until someone came to interrupt us to arrange his departure. He seemed like he was being forced to leave and stand in the lobby with his mates. While I was busy I could see on the back of my eye that his body is facing my direction while his friend is talking to him. I couldn't dare to look at him (Even though I wish I did) to make sure he's looking at me! And because I don't judge people right away, I dismissed his interest as being just friendly and perhaps I was reading incorrect signs.
The second time around (And that was after a week) he was passing by while I was with another client. He smiled wide open and waved at me ... then he approached my desk and said that he will bring me something (an autograph of a famous italian coach). I thanked him and he left. I couldn't make sure of anything at this time still considered it a friendly approach.
The third time (again, after a week) he was already checked out but waiting for his crew, while he was talking to his friends, he left them, walked a bit around still facing me, while i'm just acting a bit busy, he came and sat to talk to me: we talked about cigars, wine, days off, then he told me that he'll be a week off duty and will be back on etc etc date as if like letting me know when he'll be back or perhaps trying to know if i'll be working on that date. The weird thing is we talked about our places again as if we did not talk about it already before. We were both interested in listening to each other saying the same thing over again. Then I wanted to put my doubts into a test (I'm not sure if it was a good one though), in few seconds after we figured out that we talked already the same thing, we became silent that's where i turned a bit to my work mate and said something regarding the work while flipping my papers .. that's where he popped another topic to talk about. It looked like he wanted to keep the conversation running or maybe just trying to catch my attention again. All i can see, is his fixed eye contact, his never-ending wide smile and his blush and sort of a bit nervous body langauge. I have been working in customer service for many years and I can easily identify those who are friendly like normal friendly but this guy was soo different like seriously looking me in the eye constantly and smiling! The same thing that happened on the first time when his colleague came for the check out and it was a bit hard for him to move away. This third encounter made me consider the fact that he might be into me!
I can't confirm it but am I reading the signs correctly? :confused: Am I seeing things? :tongue: what do you think of this guy? have you guys been through the same situation? What I think is that he is but maybe I'm wrong. All this week I'm in doubts and thoughts and I can't rest because I'm thinking about him every day ... I'm in a desperate need for your advice and your analysis at my case!! :frown:
P.S: i read somewhere on this forum the story about the italian diplomat and the member kept mentioning something like "... you know, he's italian! .. " .. " .. because he's italian ... " is there anything about italian guys that i don't know?
sorry for the long post :redface:
I'm so excited I found this forum and anticipating your thoughts on my case ...
mile:First let me start off by saying this, I'm not a pre-judgemental sort of a person and I don't take things right into my account according to my personal feelings.
One day during my work time (I work in a hotel at the reception) a handsome italian pilot came to check out. All what I can see on his face is his wide grin and his friendly behaviour. I settled his account and we talked about many things during his wait for the rest of his crew to come down. We talked about our places (since we both are from different countries) and our preference as to which type of a person are we: he's more of a town/village guy and I'm more of the same with a tendancy to city life. We talked about football and the italian league and he was interested about it, etc .. the conversation was so nice and long that he did not want to leave even though he could see me that I was busy. All the time, I'm noticing his smile and his constant eye contact, it was mesmerizing!! He looked more like he's interested in discovering me and stuff until someone came to interrupt us to arrange his departure. He seemed like he was being forced to leave and stand in the lobby with his mates. While I was busy I could see on the back of my eye that his body is facing my direction while his friend is talking to him. I couldn't dare to look at him (Even though I wish I did) to make sure he's looking at me! And because I don't judge people right away, I dismissed his interest as being just friendly and perhaps I was reading incorrect signs.
The second time around (And that was after a week) he was passing by while I was with another client. He smiled wide open and waved at me ... then he approached my desk and said that he will bring me something (an autograph of a famous italian coach). I thanked him and he left. I couldn't make sure of anything at this time still considered it a friendly approach.
The third time (again, after a week) he was already checked out but waiting for his crew, while he was talking to his friends, he left them, walked a bit around still facing me, while i'm just acting a bit busy, he came and sat to talk to me: we talked about cigars, wine, days off, then he told me that he'll be a week off duty and will be back on etc etc date as if like letting me know when he'll be back or perhaps trying to know if i'll be working on that date. The weird thing is we talked about our places again as if we did not talk about it already before. We were both interested in listening to each other saying the same thing over again. Then I wanted to put my doubts into a test (I'm not sure if it was a good one though), in few seconds after we figured out that we talked already the same thing, we became silent that's where i turned a bit to my work mate and said something regarding the work while flipping my papers .. that's where he popped another topic to talk about. It looked like he wanted to keep the conversation running or maybe just trying to catch my attention again. All i can see, is his fixed eye contact, his never-ending wide smile and his blush and sort of a bit nervous body langauge. I have been working in customer service for many years and I can easily identify those who are friendly like normal friendly but this guy was soo different like seriously looking me in the eye constantly and smiling! The same thing that happened on the first time when his colleague came for the check out and it was a bit hard for him to move away. This third encounter made me consider the fact that he might be into me!
I can't confirm it but am I reading the signs correctly? :confused: Am I seeing things? :tongue: what do you think of this guy? have you guys been through the same situation? What I think is that he is but maybe I'm wrong. All this week I'm in doubts and thoughts and I can't rest because I'm thinking about him every day ... I'm in a desperate need for your advice and your analysis at my case!! :frown:
P.S: i read somewhere on this forum the story about the italian diplomat and the member kept mentioning something like "... you know, he's italian! .. " .. " .. because he's italian ... " is there anything about italian guys that i don't know?
sorry for the long post :redface:
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