06-19-2011, 02:18 AM
Hi Guys i need some advice about me and my fiance.
I'm 21 and he's 25 we've been together 18 months now, but our sex life is dwindling.
When we first met I had a very high sex drive and couldnt get enough of him to the point I think i annoyed him at times, but now I dont really get horny for him, I know this sounds shallow but since we have started going out hes put on weight and it turns me off when I can see his belly and I find myself wanting to have sex with him less and less. We talked about it and I said I didnt find him as attractive as I first did when we started going out becuase he had put on weight (he asked the question I didnt just come out and say it).
We wank each other off everynow and again but we've had nothing more than that in ages. I try to snog him everynow and again to spice things up, but he never snogs me randomly unless were wanking each other off. I find myself also watching porn to make the excitment back in my sex life, and I know its awful but sometimes I pretend its another guy wanking me off and not him
I love him deeply, I cant imagine any other guy who could make me as happy as he does, he is everything I could ever want, and I get upset when i think about leaving him, but Im worried that as he isnt doing anything about his weight that I will continue to fancy him less to the point where I stop loving him?
I dont know what to do, please advise
xxxx
I'm 21 and he's 25 we've been together 18 months now, but our sex life is dwindling.
When we first met I had a very high sex drive and couldnt get enough of him to the point I think i annoyed him at times, but now I dont really get horny for him, I know this sounds shallow but since we have started going out hes put on weight and it turns me off when I can see his belly and I find myself wanting to have sex with him less and less. We talked about it and I said I didnt find him as attractive as I first did when we started going out becuase he had put on weight (he asked the question I didnt just come out and say it).
We wank each other off everynow and again but we've had nothing more than that in ages. I try to snog him everynow and again to spice things up, but he never snogs me randomly unless were wanking each other off. I find myself also watching porn to make the excitment back in my sex life, and I know its awful but sometimes I pretend its another guy wanking me off and not him
I love him deeply, I cant imagine any other guy who could make me as happy as he does, he is everything I could ever want, and I get upset when i think about leaving him, but Im worried that as he isnt doing anything about his weight that I will continue to fancy him less to the point where I stop loving him?
I dont know what to do, please advise
xxxx