Interesting, Katina. Thanks for sharing that information.
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appologies for reading your thread so late = as people have said - your friends are not your actual friends - no rational person would encourage another to extinguish their life so please try to distance yourself from them asap - your father is so very wrong but if he wont change his view then you need to be away from his influence too - this board is the place to post your feelings and you'ves hown u have inner strength by starting a thread already - take up Katina's kind offer and have a private chat m8 - please post back and let us know how things are going remember u have many friends here to chat to
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First of all, divorce yourself from the outcome. If someone doesn't like you because you're gay (or fat, or blond haired/blue eyed)...Fuck 'em! Let it be their loss, not yours. You can't lose anything that you don't readily give away. Let them be giving away your company. With idiots like them, you won't be missing a thing. Don't try so hard. Like when you are looking for a book or trying to remember something. When do you find/remember it? When you quit trying to find/remember it. So divorce yourself from the outcome and you'll be kicking friends/potential partners out of the way. Just sit back, take a deep breath and let them come to you. Seperate from the outcome and the outcome will surprise you. Best of love, luck and laughter on your quest.
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