So guys,
I was wondering what your thoughts on blowjobs are. When it comes to intimacy, are they more on the level of making out, or do you think they count as full-blown sex?
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I had a nice detailed explanation for my vote but the internet went F you...so I'll give the summary.
Basically I used to see it like making out, but now I see it as sex. It takes a lot of trust for me to do it with a guy. I definitely wouldnt do it unless it was with someone I'm dating.
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Hmmm....I'm not sure what to think about bjs....I don't find them as intimate as making out, so for me they're kinda on the same level/less fun.
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Pity there aren't more options in your survey.... I'm sure lots of people would certainly consider making out less offensive to see happening than a blow job, again it may depend on the context...
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In high school I used to think oral sex was less intimate than kissing in many ways, probably because my friend would let me blow him but wouldn't kiss.
Now, I would say oral sex is more intimate. And I'll stop now before I start typing something that reveals my emotional vulnerability caused by bad high school experiences. :p
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Oral sex has been called the gay man's handshake. I think it means more than hello.
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Depends on who you're blowing. Could be like making out, could be sex...depends on your personal perception. :]
I think that it really just depends on who you're blowing because it could be a totally lust driven blowjob which doesn't mean much, but it could also be you trying to give your partner the time of their life.
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i think its really intimate :$
tried blowing random guyz and.... EEK .... Never gonna happen again
though im definitely gonna do it with anyone im dating :$
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