Dinner With Ex UPDATED!
08-03-2011, 09:34 PM
As many of you may remember, a few weeks ago I posted this:
[COLOR="Blue"]Hiya Guys!
Ok. I got a call today I really didnt expect. My exlover from almost 11 yrs ago called. We were togeather for right at 5 years and we split with a LOT of hard feelings because he came home with the Clap (he didnt give it to me, I would probably be sitting in prision now if he had). He had cheated (and been caught) a couple of times before and it was the last straw for me; I left him.
He ended up staying with the guy that gave him the veneral disease and their 11th year anniversary would have been July 4th (yes they counted their anniversary from the time they slept with each other - while I was still in the picture).
Well, it turns out that earlier this year the guy had a heart attack and died. My Ex actually said that he called because he needed someone to talk to, but while we spoke he inquired as to wether I was single. He asked me to have dinner with him later this month. I told him that I would have to check my calander (which is true, as I am on the road atm and need to look at my schedural at home before I would be able to confirm anything one way or another).
I feel at a bit of a loss as to wether I should accept his invitation or not. Lots of mixed feelings here.
I was hoping that some of you guys might have some thoughts on the whole thing. I am still sounding it out for myself and any input would be apprectiated.
Thanks in advance,
Beaux [/COLOR]
Well, its time I gave you guys an update and here it is:
My Ex and I met as planned and as it turns out I am very very glad that I decided to meet him. We were able to finally discuss many of the things that we had left unresolved and I think that we both benefited from it.
There were a few things that I had been miss-informed about (for example: the guy that gave him VD was NOT the same guy that he has been with all these years.
We have both changed so so very much from the people we were back then. He apologized for hurting me and I can tell that he is sincere when he says that. I think that our break-up has haunted him as much as it has haunted me (perhaps more). I have agreed to give it another shot with him. I know many of my friends here will be suprised to hear this, I know it suprised me too, but I see a future with him that I didnt expect. Any and all comments are welcome, I know you guys have my best interest at heart and I do want to hear your opinions. If you have any questions plz feel free to ask.
Thx,
Beaux
[COLOR="Blue"]Hiya Guys!
Ok. I got a call today I really didnt expect. My exlover from almost 11 yrs ago called. We were togeather for right at 5 years and we split with a LOT of hard feelings because he came home with the Clap (he didnt give it to me, I would probably be sitting in prision now if he had). He had cheated (and been caught) a couple of times before and it was the last straw for me; I left him.
He ended up staying with the guy that gave him the veneral disease and their 11th year anniversary would have been July 4th (yes they counted their anniversary from the time they slept with each other - while I was still in the picture).
Well, it turns out that earlier this year the guy had a heart attack and died. My Ex actually said that he called because he needed someone to talk to, but while we spoke he inquired as to wether I was single. He asked me to have dinner with him later this month. I told him that I would have to check my calander (which is true, as I am on the road atm and need to look at my schedural at home before I would be able to confirm anything one way or another).
I feel at a bit of a loss as to wether I should accept his invitation or not. Lots of mixed feelings here.
I was hoping that some of you guys might have some thoughts on the whole thing. I am still sounding it out for myself and any input would be apprectiated.
Thanks in advance,
Beaux [/COLOR]
Well, its time I gave you guys an update and here it is:
My Ex and I met as planned and as it turns out I am very very glad that I decided to meet him. We were able to finally discuss many of the things that we had left unresolved and I think that we both benefited from it.
There were a few things that I had been miss-informed about (for example: the guy that gave him VD was NOT the same guy that he has been with all these years.
We have both changed so so very much from the people we were back then. He apologized for hurting me and I can tell that he is sincere when he says that. I think that our break-up has haunted him as much as it has haunted me (perhaps more). I have agreed to give it another shot with him. I know many of my friends here will be suprised to hear this, I know it suprised me too, but I see a future with him that I didnt expect. Any and all comments are welcome, I know you guys have my best interest at heart and I do want to hear your opinions. If you have any questions plz feel free to ask.
Thx,
Beaux
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