should i marry

[Miller91]

well, i am damon from china, i am 28 jyears old, a age should get married in CHINA, but parents dont know my status and i dont know how to explain them i dont like marriage. In china most gays choose marriage to please parents and relatives who care about you. i am working in shanghai now, far awar from home, parents cant compel me to marry at present, but dont know how long will i insist .....

Well, thats really cool you are from China! Just when you thought you knew everything. I didnt even know homosexuality exsisted there. I thought the culture just.....was void of Homosexuality. But I guess its everywhere! Anyways, use your time wisely while in Shanhai. And yes your parnents can compel you from there. Get cultured and make lots of friends that are like you. They will be alble to aid you in how to come out to your parents. Dont rush it! Enjoy Shanghai!