Can You Date Men and Women?

[Drew]

BTW, you kinda/sorta/maybe sound a little like I did in my early 20's......."I like girls, but I kinda jack off thinking about guys a lot too......but if I find the *right* girl I'll forget all about this 'gay' stuff and live a happy normal life....."

Being openly gay isn't that scary, really. Don't close off a large chunk of what makes up your humanity just because of societal pressure. But *do* take your time finding and discovering what makes you who you are, too.

[ToddYoung]

I can't really relate to this. I've never had any sexual feelings for a woman (I kissed one once when I was 16 and I'm not doing it again.) Still, it sounds to me like you're bisexual. If you find a girl you want to spend the rest of your life with, yeah, I'd tell her. But that's just me. I can be too honest and a lot of people don't like it.

[DarkDaisuke]

I understand you probably like women more but for the love of god let your future wife/girlfriend know, and let her know that your desire for the samesex might need some attention from time to time. That's why marriages nowadays don't work. Monogamy is fine and dandy but still establish your boundaries and shit before you walk down the aisle dude. Only you know yourself and can set it up for yourself to not hurt the woman. If you don't then its your own fucking fault and you deserve to be looked upon.

[SleepTalker]

yeah you shouldnt give up on relationships with guys because youre more attracted to girls. I kow you want to settle down and have kids, but you can adopt kids with a husband you know. And if your girlfriend doesnt like the fact that youve been with guys then maybe she isnt the one for you.

[Jason74]

Just as long as you are honest with her and tell her from the start I am sure that you will be fine and she won't have a problem with it. Yet if you keep it a secret and later on she finds out about it and knows that you are keeping secrets it might become a problem. One simple rule in any relationship that I have is this one word : Communication. Without it then it just creates problems, yet that is just my two cents.

[Bowyn Aerrow]

Just as long as you are honest with her and tell her from the start I am sure that you will be fine and she won't have a problem with it. Yet if you keep it a secret and later on she finds out about it and knows that you are keeping secrets it might become a problem. One simple rule in any relationship that I have is this one word : Communication. Without it then it just creates problems, yet that is just my two cents.

Mind communication is a two way street. you can talk to/communicate AT a person, and as long as they are unwilling or unable to communicate back it does no good.

I personally wouldn't date a woman. Not my 'type'