can i be striaght and still get off to gay porn?

[Anonymous]

just wondering. i feel like im straight but gay porn turns me on.

[bariuke]

well, many people can get turned on by plenty of different kinds of sex. Straight men are excited by seeing penises as well. Look at all the straight porn that features big dicks, and all the porn that is even centered around giant penises. Yeah, straight guys are interested in penises, too, so it's not unreasonable to think that a straight man could be turned on by gay porn.

The big question is: what about it turns you on? are you just looking at their dicks? Do you like the kissing? Do you imagine being one of the people in the video?

Don't sweat it too much. Almost everybody, whether they admit it or not, has at least a small amount of attraction or interest in their own sex. If you are gay or bi, trust me, there will come a time when you'll know.

[SlipknotRlZZ]

Sure, man, you could be anything you want to. IF you get turned on by gay porn you could be labeled as bisexual, but if you're not comfortable with that label, sure, you are straight. But if you ever feel that you want to be with a man, even just for sex, don't panick and don't hold it in. Don't worry. :]

[pellaz]

some research indicates the male response to porn is specific to gay or straight. get your facts, read up what is out there.

[Craig]

Have you had gay sex?
I mean porn in general gets you off by having you fantasize and imagine being involved in it, to me at least. So if you fantasize what you see, you're probably gay

[zeon]

What you choose to bang one out to is your choice however who you have sex and live in a relationship with is what your sexuality is....

[LateBloomer]

just wondering. i feel like im straight but gay porn turns me on.

Back in my early 20s, I went to a therapist for a few sessions in order to help me make sense of what I was feeling.

It went something like this...

Me: My first attractions were towards girls, but I think I'm starting to like guys.

Him: What makes you think you're attracted to guys?

Me: Well, for one, I watch gay porn.

Him: Ok, and you get aroused?

Me: Yeah.

Him: To the point of ejaculation?

Me: Yeah.

Him: Ok.

(Apparently he wasn't convinced this meant much because of his following suggestion)

Him: I think you need to get out there and start dating men and women and see what that feels like.

Me: :eek:

So I didn't have sex with a woman until I was 35 and I didn't have sex with a man until I was 42.

The point is, PORN IS FOR FANTASY. You won't know what's for REAL until you try it.

Good luck.

[Drew]

LateBloomer, how is the advice the therapist gave you unusual? That would have been my assessment too - date both and see which you like more. Or are we missing a piece here? Seems like sound advice. I dated both back in my early twenties - I definitely like guys more, I can say that without a doubt.

[LateBloomer]

LateBloomer, how is the advice the therapist gave you unusual? That would have been my assessment too - date both and see which you like more. Or are we missing a piece here? Seems like sound advice. I dated both back in my early twenties - I definitely like guys more, I can say that without a doubt.

No, it wasn't unusual advice. I thought it was VERY GOOD advice, but I was TERRIFIED to hear it, that's why I went eek!

:biggrin:

[matty7]

sure . why not ,,,its just sex so if that gets u off then it doesnt mean ur gay,,, but u do know in your heart im sure