... but you haven't deleted your account yet. I hope that means you are keeping your options open?
I'm curious as to what you might be looking for, although I quite understand if you don't wish to enter discussion, I'm merely thinking aloud. If you have read as many posts as you "could" (which, to me, implies you read many, many posts), what was so difficult that a single discussion in 8,427 threads (okay, it spilled over a little into a couple of others
) became THE reason for your decision?
I would not go as far as some contributors here who have occasionally referred to a "GaySpeak family", but all families have discussions and arguments with different points of view being expressed.
I was on the verge of ignoring your farewell announcement, because when it comes to it, none of us is indispensable, specially on an all but anonymous discussion forum, but then my curiosity was gently piqued. Reasons for leaving might include the fact that one doesn't wish to spend time reading and responding to the discussions, or even an irritation that one is expected to post five, ten, twenty, fifty, a hundred or a thousand messages to access certain functions as established by Andy, the site owner. The way you have expressed yourself though suggests that you are concerned that people might have differing points of view ... although maybe I've misunderstood you.
Anyway, by the time I've finished and posted this message you will no doubt have deleted your account and left for sunnier climes.
Bon voyage