Hey, I'm new...

[Croconaw7]

Hey there! My name's Christian and I'm new to this site! I wouldn't exactly call myself bi because I'm not too sure if I like girls... come to think of it, can anybody give me advice on how to figure out if I like girls? I'm certain I like guys, but when it comes to females... eh.

[LateBloomer]

Hey there! My name's Christian and I'm new to this site! I wouldn't exactly call myself bi because I'm not too sure if I like girls... come to think of it, can anybody give me advice on how to figure out if I like girls? I'm certain I like guys, but when it comes to females... eh.

Welcome!

I'll give you the same advice that was given me when I had the same question: Go on some dates!

At the time that idea terrified me, but really the best way to find out is to experiment a little, have some fun, keep your sense of humor. Just because you go on a date doesn't mean you have to get married!

mile:

In time, you'll figure it out.
Best,
LB.

[Croconaw7]

Welcome!

I'll give you the same advice that was given me when I had the same question: Go on some dates!

At the time that idea terrified me, but really the best way to find out is to experiment a little, have some fun, keep your sense of humor. Just because you go on a date doesn't mean you have to get married!

mile:

In time, you'll figure it out.
Best,
LB.

Hahaha, I suppose! Thank you very much, however... I'm not too good at attracting anybody, actually. I'm willing to change for just about anybody, but I don't really have a type... and advice for that? x]

[LateBloomer]

Hahaha, I suppose! Thank you very much, however... I'm not too good at attracting anybody, actually. I'm willing to change for just about anybody, but I don't really have a type... and advice for that? x]

No no no, you don't change to attract people!

You might straighten yourself up a little, but don't change! Be yourself.

Of course you're asking, who the hell am I?

:biggrin:

That's called "growing up" and "self discovery". And dating is all part of that (I found that out the hard way).

Go on dates--but don't CALL THEM dates. Just go out.
Participate.
Take chances.
Get some exposure; some life experience; some adventures; take some risks.

Find out who you are; what's important to you; what turns you off and on...etc...

READ.

AND READ.

AND READ SOME MORE!
Then do a little writing.

[Croconaw7]

Hahaha, you put a delightful spin on the subject.

I don't really have the chance to visit or hang out with others, but I suppose I can try harder... thanks. x]

[dfiant]

G Day Croc and welcome.

Knowledge comes with experience

[LateBloomer]

Hahaha, you put a delightful spin on the subject.

I don't really have the chance to visit or hang out with others, but I suppose I can try harder... thanks. x]

Yeah man, try harder, but don't put too much pressure on yourself, you know?

You're still young (a teenager?). There's LOTS of time.

This is the most important part: TAKE INTEREST IN YOUR OWN LIFE. If you live an active and interesting life then you'll meet people with the same activities and interests.

Don't be a couch potato; take the bull by the horns. THIS IS YOUR LIFE; take control of it.

[Inchante]

Welcome to GS!

[Braz]

Welcome to gayspeak and depends how old you are going out to clubs and maybe meet some females, but dont need to do anything just maybe a kiss and see how you feel about it. You like males for sure, so it maybe the case you are gay and not bi. mile:

[Almac]

Hi Christian welcome to this forum. I'm sure when the time comes and the right person crosses your path you'll know what you prefer...?