10-08-2011, 11:18 AM
Jay Wrote:I concur.
My first crush was to a straight guy who I thought was gay. He was my dream guy.
Y'know how people say that the first crush is the hardest to forget. It's true.
There's only one way to find out whether your guy is gay or straight. You have to come clean to him by coming out. I know that coming out can be nerve wrecking but that's the only way to find out. You will emotionally suffer if you continue to question his sexuality, your relationship with him etc.
I've liked one person before him and that person was easy to give up on. It was very obvious he is straight... and even if he isn't I wouldn't have gone for him. The way he treats me is just... well, I just think I deserve much better treatment than how he is treating me.
I came out to a few friends. Most of them took it quite well, except for one, where he thinks I have lack of exposure to girls, that is why I am like that. After a day of awkwardness with him, he and I didn't mention anything about this. He and I are still close friends, just that I think he can't accept the fact that I am gay.
As of now, I'm just thinking when would be the best time to tell him and the method of telling him. I swear being gay isn't pleasant, unnecessary ordeals...