JShell1265 Wrote:I've started trying to date and I'm not having much luck
give it some time mr panic attack and see some good in all situations. a date turned hookup, not ideal, but you dont know where the experience takes you. the gay community is small and you dont know who they know.
JShell1265 Wrote:I don't drive, so it would be by bus or train
not driving is a limit. in the case of the 19year old its a good thing but you need to consider gays close in your area. you dont want to rip up your life for a boyfriend. i find people that dont drive have a different view on things too, all good tho.
JShell1265 Wrote:I finally met someone ... He is 28 years old a personal trainer and is beautiful ... he has a possible job out of state ... He wants to stay if he has found someone ... he is asking me to be roommates.
just thinking he is trying to find himself, something you cant do for him.
your are worried about age when there are many factors that play into it.
the ideal age is someone 5-10years younger, close enough to have things in common, young enough to take care of things if they fail, maybe push you in a new direction. you asked so there it is..
online sites, some you can restrict who you are interested in age wise. set this plus minus 10years?
if you drove; the 19year old (make sure he's 19), everyone would learn a lot and you could gain a close friend.
if you want a room mate the personal trainer would work and you would have possibly the best work out partner possible.
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