thinking bout it

[Rainbowmum]

Congrats on landing a good paying job Lewis , thats great news.
I would just like to say that I am glad you are feeling ready to comeout , it takes a lot of guts.
Regarding your mother I sense that things are turbulant between you two , and I am very sorry for that.
Just remember that what ever you say , never say it out of spite , that will only hurt you.

[ManicReptile21]

Congrats on landing a good paying job Lewis , thats great news.
I would just like to say that I am glad you are feeling ready to comeout , it takes a lot of guts.
Regarding your mother I sense that things are turbulant between you two , and I am very sorry for that.
Just remember that what ever you say , never say it out of spite , that will only hurt you.

that is quite interesting to hear from a mother- quite informative actually- has authority to sway my opinion lol. quite scary as i never thought my opinion could be swayed. Anyway. I will think about it further. I may just be nice about it- (until you tries to lash out at me) i don't know if i should be patient with her- or if i should'nt give her a second chance the mioment she flips.

[dfiant]

Everyone deserves a second chance

[zeon]

LOL, my mother is already a grandmother, so she'd better not bother me with that complaint (thank you older sister for having a child LOL) Lol i was thinking of doing it short and sweet- or possibly i'll leave a letter when i go to work one day. lol in this case i think it'd actually be my father who wouldn't care, my mother's gonna blow a gasket lol (uber religious woman). I'm preparing myself mentally atm. I plan on coming out to my friends first. Specifically the guy i have been crushing on for the past five years. I kinda have made myself numb just in case he's not gay. but if he is. I don't think i'll ever be happy than i will be at that second.

If your mum says why are you gay say why are you hetrosexual? What makes you you is what makes me me what religion states about gays etc is policitcally incorrect we dont choose our fate fate gives us what we get and we cannot change it

[Rainbowmum]

You are on the right path sweetie.
Be the bigger person , and remain kind to yourself.( no regrets begets no guilt)

If she insists on flipping out , just walk away, let her be the one that regrets her actions, not you.

Remember , words are like toothpaste , once they are out , it is impossible to put them back, and spite is a double edged sword.

BTW I love your new photo, nice to see your smile.

[dfiant]

BTW I love your new photo, nice to see your smile.

Gorgeous eyes too

[ManicReptile21]

you know- you are very right about that Rainbowmum. what a clever and honest statement. I think i'll quote you on that one!

and the two of you! You made me blush! I feel the gazes of the people around me wondering why i am blushing!

[Rainbowmum]

Awww you are so sweet ,qoute to your hearts content.
If people are wondering why you are blushing , dazzle them with your smile
It will drive them nuts. lol