Are hand jobs out or what?

[WesHollywood]

Seems like since my teens no one offered me a handjob until last weekend. I met up with a hunky guy who was hot, and wanted me to jerk him off in front of a floor length mirror. I said what the heck. At least I did not have to wear a rubber, and it was safe sex. The guy was pretty narcissistic, he kept wanting me to watch him play with himself in the mirror.

Well, what the hell he had a hot bod, and the whole thing was pretty amusing. We wrapped up with mutual hand jobs, and I thought it was alright considering the safe sex.

Something about it seems strange to me, any ideas any one? Could it be that this type of basic sex is supposed to be over at my age? But, come on, wouldn't that also be true of jerking off too?

What's next?

[SleepTalker]

Maybe the fact that it was a random person made you feel uncomfortable. of course it doesnt matter what age you are. a hand job is a hand job no matter what age.

[WesHollywood]

Maybe the fact that it was a random person made you feel uncomfortable. of course it doesnt matter what age you are. a hand job is a hand job no matter what age.

Never thought I might have a hangup about it. Worth considering. My feeling was that I had kind of moved on from that style of sex. Can't say I have anything negative to say about last weekend. I guess it was more of a surprise, but a pleasant one. :biggrin:

[James]

Everyone gets off in a slightly differant manor, that was his, go with it and enjoy

[WesHollywood]

Found this masturbation humor on an old Seinfeld episode, but it is not the mutual masturbation topic of this thread.

[beast]

Seems boring haha but there are cons including not having much clean to up, it is relatively safe, but cons are that it isnt as exciting or even that much fun at least IMO.

The narcissistic thing is very funny and like you said it was just one time thing so it really shoudnt be that big a deal. Maybe you regret not doing more with him?

[LateBloomer]

One of my favorite sayings is: "Sex is like pizza. Even when it's bad it's still pretty good."

:biggrin:

I'm not above mutual handjobs with a hot guy but narcissists I find very annoying. My biggest pet peeve is "one way" sex. If anybody bothers to ask me what I want most out of sex I will answer, "mutual satisfaction."

I want to please, and BE pleased.

Anything from handjobs to full blown love making is cool with me as long as it's mutual.

Just my feelings.
Your mileage may vary.

[Bowyn Aerrow]

Oh I can see much strange there....



Maybe it was the whole looking glass thing... Maybe you were feeling like he was using you as a piece of meat.
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Maybe hooking up with strangers hunky or not to do stuff is getting old for you.

Seems to me he was in it for him not for the 'us' part. You were only a prop in his fantasy world.

[zeon]

Hello Wes,
Meet up with someone for a wank can be just as exciting as the full hog however if all his going to do is go around looking for people to give him a hand job whilst he poses like a pretty boy in a mirror screaming oi oi sailor boy at 90 decibles, then im sorry but his never going to realise his full potential... I would say the uncomfortableness coiuld be nerves because you stated that you hadnt done this since your teens however masturbation is bloody lovely.... Most times you can start out like this and then just shove it in ya gob and tempt it further :-D

Kindest regards

zeon x

[Almac]

The things we get up to in the privacy of our bedrooms....!!!