Introverts and Extroverts.

[sweetlad86]

LOL I actually hate people being close to me, I am actually like PERSONAL BUBBLE!!!

Not a fan of touchy feely people, unless they have another thought on their mind .

I kind of like that my self cardy.

I really like to keep my self to my self most the time.

But want to charge a little bit, because I'm not making that many friends being like this.

Other people not my self have to go past that part of me to become my friend, my problem is I've let people in the past and then they just start being nasty and untrustworthy towards me, so now I dont trust any one that much any more.

I have such a negativeness about me I'm not sure how to get reed of it now as its been around me for so long..

[XRIMO]

You sound like me sweetlad (or at least what I was like when I was a little younger). You just need to be self-confident. I usually have a hard time talking to people, but in the last couple years I have made many friends at school and at work because I decided to just be myself.

Also, I know what its like to let someone into your life and then they act like a total douchebag... but don't let it get to you. Some are like that, and some aren't. The ones that are like that, you just ignore.

Anyway, instead of looking at the negative things in your life (which is something we all do, but we only seem to focus on them), find your positive attributes and focus on them instead. It does wonders for your spirit.

[sweetlad86]

I'm charging but very slowly lol...

Well to day I've started making friends with other people in my tutor group at Uni. Two of them are gay (well gay and a lesbian, both older than me), so I think thats a start, I'm starting feel happy with who I am, but I'm still finding it hard to be my self.

I think I'm scared of being my self though.

The only time I ever felt my self was when I first came out (gay) back at college.

[zeon]

sweet babes never fear nothing hunni.. I am always open and to point about myself and if people never accept it then they can go run and jump

[Amanda1981]

I am an introvert. I just don't like large groups of people.

[(V)aster(V)ind]

I am pretty much introverted. Until someone gets to know me, they will hardly ever hear me talk or see me do anything. Someone new almost always has to make the first move / say the first words. Introvert/Extrovert personalities pretty much depend on what happens to a person in childhood (as most psychological issues do). I just so happened to be very fat (ok... obese) when I was younger. It wasn't my fault really, I had bad health problems and had to take steroids and they made me blow up like a balloon. My self conciousness from childhood has followed me all the way up until now and I doubt it will ever fade away. Even now that I only way 125 pounds (a very nice weight for a person my age/height) I still feel very sensitive about how people view me (whether it be physical or mental). Somehow, when I was younger, the two became mixed. I suppose this was a good thing in the long run, though. It was probably the major aspect of my life that caused me to be so open to so many things. Wow, that was longer than I meant it to be. Best of wishes to everyone. ^_^

[Yosuke]

I am both.

When I'm not in the best of moods or tired or just want some alone time, I go into introvert mode, where I just seclude myself...usually this is a time of introspection I guess.

And then when I go to school I turn extrovert on..especially when running for political office. I can speak to large crowds in a campaign, then go home and read a book by myself. Guess it's good to be versatile

[charliemonster93]

I am an extrovert all the way. i will walk up to a total random in the street and start talking to them, some people get freaked out but some people like it. like for example the other day i was grabbing some lunch at a take away. i saw to guys sitting on camp chairs in the middle of a parking lot :-S. i had to know what was going on lol
so i just went up and spoke to them, they were kinda cute actually but i couldn't see from a distance.
turns out they were BF's dam lol

any hoo..
i reckon people would be happier in public if everyone was friendly and just spoke to each other. That's what i love about Australia
if you see someone in the street, and lock eyes wit them, you smile and say hello. people need to be more like Australia

[Mr.Dude]

I spose Im pretty introverted because Ive been alone for a while. Like not just in terms of relationships just that the friends I have have all been transferred and such. I keep to myself alot and its dificult for me to talk to people sometimes because I get nervous or I imply things Idont mean to imply or etc. Like I was staying at a hostel in Ireland and a British fellow asked me if I took milk with my tea and my answer was nervously delivered thesis statement to which he replied "...most people its just yes or no..." So I guess I need to learn how to relax or something.I can be extroverted with people I know and am comfortable with but its not very frequent.

[Lake]

Am very introvert and private very close to my friends