and now for my test results........drum roll...dadadadada ting
16% Extraverted 84% Introverted
I am a INTJ - The "Strategist" INTJs are introspective, analytical, determined persons with natural leadership ability < I don't know about that last one.
INTJ (Strategist) Personality Type - Jungian
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According to the test that I took, I am somewhat extroverted. "You tend to have a more extroverted personality but with a good balance of introvertedness. "
I'm not shy and do not have problem to mingle around in a crowd place. But sometimes I prefer to spend my time alone - quality personal time.
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Im intorverted all the way. My social phobia controls every aspect of my life. So much so I suffer from selective mutism where my voice box freezes if I am to nervous while talking. I hate talking on the phone.
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I thought I'd answered this. Apparently not.
I find mixing with lots of people quite difficult. If people see me as a performer they see the me that has learned to mask this and get on with the job. I am more comfortable fronting a band, where I can share the attention, than performing solo. At a party I generally stand in the corner at talk to one person only. I like to be acknowledged, but I don't like to be noticed :redface:
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I would consider myself an extravert. At times, I can be extremely introverted. Maybe that's why I spend some time over here on the Internet. It really depends. I can approach a stranger and talk to them with no problem. My aunt (my mom's sister) is the same way. She's very extraverted. My mom is introverted though.
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well, I'm actually kind of addicted to socialising, I have many friends(most of them gay men). I really like being with friends. As for meeting new people, I get really nervous and don't say a lot. If I'm meeting somebody for the first time, and I'm also with friends, then it's no problem at all. Although when I meet a group of new people, where I don't know anybody, I get terrified.
I work at a gay-club, and I really love going clubbing there. The staff is amazing and I look at them as my family. I'm a recovering alcoholic, so I don't drink, but I can still be one of the wildest people on the dance-floor if my mood is good.
Although I find it really easy to write what ever I feel like, and what ever is on my mind, even with people I don't know.
I still really like being alone too, I have great quality time sometimes with myself and my laptop. I also don't handle too much socialising very well, if it's too much I'll end up being moody and stuff. Sometimes somebody calls me to meet up with them, but I don't want to because I'm too comfortable alone at home.
So I'm actually not sure which category I fall into.
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I thought i'd answered this thread with alittle more detail.:confused:
Meh. Well:
I am EXTREMELY INTROVERTED. I find it incredibly hard to say a word to someone i do not know.
But once i warm up to someone, i become alittle more outgoing. Though i'm still a man of little word. And tend to fade into silence around more talkative types or large groups.
Oh yeah. And i don't DO phone calls. I comunicate by reading people, i find it incredibly hard to comunicate without it. As its like a safty net for me, i can always use the other persons facial expresions and body language to help gage intentions and how what the person said was intended to be taken.
Over the phone i just turn all shy and just....get really nervous.
Over the internet though, i'd say i'm pretty extroverted thanks to anoymity. And the fact the net is a pretty informal form of comunication.(And smilelys help.:biggrin 
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Ingz Wrote:well, I'm actually kind of addicted to socialising, I have many friends(most of them gay men). I really like being with friends. As for meeting new people, I get really nervous and don't say a lot. If I'm meeting somebody for the first time, and I'm also with friends, then it's no problem at all. Although when I meet a group of new people, where I don't know anybody, I get terrified.
I work at a gay-club, and I really love going clubbing there. The staff is amazing and I look at them as my family. I'm a recovering alcoholic, so I don't drink, but I can still be one of the wildest people on the dance-floor if my mood is good.
Although I find it really easy to write what ever I feel like, and what ever is on my mind, even with people I don't know.
I still really like being alone too, I have great quality time sometimes with myself and my laptop. I also don't handle too much socialising very well, if it's too much I'll end up being moody and stuff. Sometimes somebody calls me to meet up with them, but I don't want to because I'm too comfortable alone at home.
So I'm actually not sure which category I fall into. It doesn't have to be "either, or".  mile:
So you're kinda in the middle then?
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Genersis Wrote:It doesn't have to be "either, or".mile:
So you're kinda in the middle then?
Hehe, yeah, I know.
Oh, and I don't do well with phone-calls either, although it's not for the same reason as somebody here above mentioned. I have a mild case of Asperger Syndrome, and I can't detect what people mean very well. I'm just more comfortable seeing the person I'm talking to, I have no idea why actually. Although I'm always trying to study people, and the ones closest to me I have learned on. I can see it every time when my sister lies, while nobody else can. I know her too well.
And while I have many friends, I let very few close.
I really like going crazy and having crazy-fun, but I like being easy-going just the same.
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marshlander Wrote:I thought I'd answered this. Apparently not.
I find mixing with lots of people quite difficult. If people see me as a performer they see the me that has learned to mask this and get on with the job. I am more comfortable fronting a band, where I can share the attention, than performing solo. At a party I generally stand in the corner at talk to one person only. I like to be acknowledged, but I don't like to be noticed :redface:
But you are gradually getting bolder and braver, hon...:biggrin:
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