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12-06-2011, 04:39 PM

Hello everybody

After years of thinking about it I have recentely decided to try and have some fun with another man. Can anybody give me tips on where the best places are to find a nice man. I have looked on the internet maybe in the wrong places but they seem to be interested in just sex. I live in a little village near a little town so my options are not huge but any advice is appreciated.

Thanks

12-06-2011, 08:57 PM

welcome to gs

gay men make up a small part of the population so what ever your expectations it will take time. The gay population is more for a city area so living in a "little village near a little town" is a disadvantage.

keep doing the online thing. Volunteer at a local gay center would be great for you giving you exposure to the culture and say if you work at the front desk you will get to know a few people.

Hope you would like to participate in the discussions here. Enjoy.

12-06-2011, 09:31 PM

hello and welcome to the forum,
I think the best thing to do is take a weekend break in either Manchester - canal street, Soho London or St James' street Brighton three popular gay resorts within the UK.. I have heard of frome before but not sure where exactly it is lol

Kindest regardfs

zeon x

Bookworm · 12-06-2011, 10:02 PM

Hi Ben,

12-06-2011, 10:34 PM

Welcome to the board.

12-07-2011, 02:00 PM

Hi again.
Thanks for your comments Pellaz is there any sites you can recommend to find a nice looking man around my age who isn't just after meeting up in a car. I'd like to get to know someone before i do anything else. Maybe i'm being unrealistic i don't know!.

Zeon I would love to visit those places if i build up the courage to do it on my own you might see me around brighton it's not that far from me(Frome's in Somerset btw 9 miles from Glastonbury Festival). I think i need to just bite the bullet and go, it would be an experience if nothing else.

Thanks for your advice anything else is appreciated.x

12-07-2011, 02:06 PM

Welcome Ben!!!! Good for you for taking a leap into a curious adventure you have been wanting to take. There are a lot of helpful people in here (as you can see) and lots of support. Hope to see you around and best of luck in finding some love.

12-07-2011, 02:15 PM

Thanks Airborn. Nice of you to say. I should of taken the adventure up years ago, think of all adventures i may of missed out on but hey why look to the past it's all about the future now:-)

12-07-2011, 02:45 PM

Hi welcome Ben, just be careful where your curiosity takes you? Start with Plenty of Fish (POF) It's free and there are gay men on that site...

12-07-2011, 03:25 PM

sex is a necessity in life so get your self tested. Right now, for the HIV and a generic STD panel inc HEP C. There is a vaccination series for HEP B. A community out reach should offer these for free and some what anomalously. Your date (gay bi or straight) is a fool not to ask your health and dating habits.

look at some condemns and lube ( astroglide is functional generic brand here )

do the googles ( hiv hep std ... )

the first boy will sweep you off your feet for mind blowing sex. You will date him a year and a half and the laws will change so you can marry. In the intern stay healthy.