Maybe the typical gay "situation"?

[dfiant]

Sam...please edit your post and remove you contact details, it's not safe to have your details on show like that. I admire you for your desire to help, but please do it safely

[TommyinKY]

With teenagers I can only recommend that if you have any doubts about how they will react then wait. If you are sure they won't take it well wait. If after objective assessment, which is done without fear or hope, you come to the conclusion that they will react well then it should be ok.

Having said that I can't recommend teenagers come out due to their dependency on their family. Instead I recommend excelling in school, cultivating a job skill, perhaps apply for college, jet a job, and once your out of the home at 18 come out. Your goal should be independence that way you can determine your own destiny.