12-12-2011, 10:52 PM
ok first time poster here, went for coffee with a guy, thought it went pretty well. He told me that he needed to go meet a friend for a drink in the city after an hour and a half but he did say 'definitely want to meet again dude' when we left each other. he did not show any romantic interest in me but I don't know if he was just playing it cool. He was also just out of a two week relationship so I'm nout sure why he evne agreed to meet me. Previously to this we chatted on gaydar , exchanged messages, then progressed to texting on cell phones, he never called me cute or anything but i told him he looked good once or twice so he could've slipped it in if he liked me. he suggested we meet up for coffee.
After the date, i texted him a few hours later, i know i probably should have left it for a few days but i was curious as to how he saw me. he replied quickly, we texted for an hour or two. he suggested he take me to gym with him, and i said i would sometime.
next day i didn't text, said i'd give him a break
say after that i texted him later on in the evening just saying hi. he said he was going to the gym and i said i'd leave him to get on with it. he didn't text me back later and it's been a day later now and still no reply from him. Does anyone know if he probably has no interest in me or what? Or is it just a bad time for him with his breakup. i'M so crap with stuff like this, it was my first ever date. i know this is boring but i would love some advice.
thanks, darren
After the date, i texted him a few hours later, i know i probably should have left it for a few days but i was curious as to how he saw me. he replied quickly, we texted for an hour or two. he suggested he take me to gym with him, and i said i would sometime.
next day i didn't text, said i'd give him a break
say after that i texted him later on in the evening just saying hi. he said he was going to the gym and i said i'd leave him to get on with it. he didn't text me back later and it's been a day later now and still no reply from him. Does anyone know if he probably has no interest in me or what? Or is it just a bad time for him with his breakup. i'M so crap with stuff like this, it was my first ever date. i know this is boring but i would love some advice.
thanks, darren