What do you consider cheating?

[Alwaysconfused]

Sexting?
Flriting?
Kissing?
Sex?

what if you been dating for 1, 2,3, or 4 months and you have not talked about being exclusive or haven't be asked to be their bfs, then what is cheating then?

[icanuc]

Well if you are not bf's yet how do you know if he is not cheating on you? but on the other hand maybe it is taken for granted that you and him are dating. Some people date numberous people at one time. As far as flirting, everyone does that. Having sex with someone else I would concider cheating as well as sexting. Kissing well if it is a peck on a cheak or the lips I see nothing wrong with that.

[Inchante]

Sexting?
Flriting?
Kissing?
Sex?

what if you been dating for 1, 2,3, or 4 months and you have not talked about being exclusive or haven't be asked to be their bfs, then what is cheating then?

Flirting is always open so long as it remains within reason. That is, flirting should be playful and joking rather than with intent. Kissing, sex, etc. is cheating. As far as the length of time . . . I don't think that matters. I think that the nature of the relationship is what matters. There can be understandings in a relationship that do not need a spoken agreement or a certain length of time, and I think that works both ways.

[Kiid]

Ok the other week I got asked if I would be someones fuckbuddy. O.o
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Cheating to me.
Sex
Sexting
Kissing
IDK about flirting

Also me and my boy never talked about being exclusive. We just held hands and that was than.

[TimmyThink]

Sexting - Not cheating but like a huge red flag
Flriting - Not cheating but very disrespectful if done flagrantly
Kissing - Yeah that's not unforgivable but still cheating
Sex- CHEATING!! like dump their ass cheating and burn their shit cheating :eek:

[Almac]

I always considered dating to be the mutual attraction of two people who have the intent of a relationship, so for me any thing that meant that you were not exclusively going with that one person you're dating is cheating and unfair.

[JtheYoungBear]

I believe that it IS cheating when you are exclusive (that is, it is a mutual agreement to see only each other) and one or the other is seeing people (dating, sex, etc.) behind the others' back.

It is NOT cheating if you are not mutually exclusive and are just casually dating.

From my perspective, of course...

[icanuc]

We all seem to have differing opinions here so hope you can sort it all out!

[Almac]

We all seem to have differing opinions here so hope you can sort it all out!

That's the wonderful thing about Gay Speak we all have our own ideas and concepts thankfully no-one ever thinks the same otherwise what a boring world this would be, debate and reasoned-argument is the stuff that makes us human and keeps us from stagnating.

[Bowyn Aerrow]

Flirting not really cheating, unless the intent is for the flirt to go some where.

Cuber-sex is cheating. Porn no, web cams maybe - depends on if this is a public 'webcam' or a private showing. It can swing either way.

Kissing on the cheek no, lip kissing and lip lock - yes.

What if you been dating for 1, 2,3, or 4 months and you have not talked about being exclusive or haven't be asked to be their bfs, then what is cheating then?

See this is something I have never been in. I made it clear almost at the very first meeting what it is I was looking for what I am willing to accept and not accept. If I am dating anyone and its hitting the third date with it clearly leading to more dating, I come right out and say that I am looking for 100% monogamy. I don't leave these sorts of things open to interpretation.