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Ever had a crush on a homophobe?
I never thought such a thing would happen but it did. He's so f*cking cute, just my type - very feminine and skinny and... he turned out to be a homophobe - one of the worst types of homophobes, actually.
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Once I know someone is a homophobe, all attraction ceases.
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Yeah, attitude can make people very unattractive.
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CellarDweller Wrote:Yeah, attitude can make people very unattractive.
Not in my world.
If he's sexy enough, hating me won't stop me from wanting to fuck him.
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Yeah, sure I've had crushes on straight guys who were homophobic. I kind of do at the moment as a matter of fact (although, so far as I can make out, his 'phobicness' has more to do with intimacy in general; the homo part is just one aspect of it). BUT... that said, the one thing I do not find the least bit erotic is the thought of having sex with someone who wasn't into me as much as I was into them. At my age that decreases the potentials by about 99.9% but that's how I feel about it. If I have to "seduce" someone -- and then deal with the aftermath (however that may turn out), I'm just not interested in that drama.
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In my opinion...I just feel that if someone is homophobic and no matter how good looking he is ...for me it's just a waste of time and energy because if that's what he is ...then its okay to have a "fantasy crush" but in hopes of something to come to reality is probably just "wishful thinking"
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NO....If I did..the moment I knew he was a homophobe my attraction would cease immediately and turn to revulsion..
For me...attitude is everything...
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In my experience, homophobes often actually do have same sex attraction, they just hate themselves for it and it manifests as homophobia. Either way, not good.
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I prefer people who are true to themselves, I wouldn't even bother with someone like that.
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