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How did you know?
#1
Okay, so I am questioning my sexuality and I was wondering how you knew you were bi or gay. Just give me the main points (and maybe a summary of your journey). Thank you all!Confusedmile:Confusedmile:Confusedmile:Confusedmile::
#2
When I was a teenager, I would draw pictures of couples doing "it" and more often than not, they'd be two men doing "it."... When I watched female-male porn, I'd not be so interested.... and indeed if it was only females (two females, let's say) I wasn't interested at all... Very little gay porn was available to me, so I'd make my own.
When I was able to have some sexual experience, I started out with a man, and enjoyed it, but he wasn't very faithful, let's say, and I tried a relationship with a woman, which satisfied me more on the emotional level... It also worked quite well, sexually speaking, and I might even have married her and had kids, but when that relationship stopped, I knew I wouldn't want to go back to another woman, as I felt I'd be cheating on her expectations, as I still wanted to be with a male partner, and was curious about other things I hadn't tried with my first lover....

Which is where I've ended now. Been in a wonderful relationship with my man for 8 years and they have been the happiest, most fulfilling, moments of my life.
#3
I've just always kinda known, when I was around 13-14 I thought maybe I was bi, but over the years I've lost interest in women completely.
When a subject is highly controversial — and any question about sex is that — one cannot hope to tell the truth. One can only show how one came to hold whatever opinion one does hold. One can only give one's audience the chance of drawing their own conclusions as they observe the limitations, the prejudices, the idiosyncrasies of the speaker.
- Virginia Woolf
#4
lol, PA stole my answer about the porn. I remember watching woman-on-woman porn with my friends one time and it did absolutely nothing. But I watch guy-on-guy porn... oh man its heaven.

I first realized it when I felt turned on seeing shirtless guys on tv or in magazines, and I was like 10 at that time. Soon I realized I was attracted to the male form. While I tend to get along better with woman, I can never imagine myself in a relationship with a woman, it would not satisfy me in any way.
In the end, it boils down to two simple choices. Either you do or you don't. You'd think with all the problems in this world, there'd be more answers. It's not fair... but its the way things are. The choice is yours. ~ Zidane Tribal

Hope is comforting, it allows us to accept fate no matter how tragic it may be. ~ Yunalesca

"Απο μακρυά και αγαπημένοι παρά απο κοντά και μαλωμένοι"

There's not a word yet, for old friends who've just met ~ Gonzo
#5
I think what you're saying is true, Xrimo. I would also always have a roving eye whenever I see a shirtless man. I think Joseph is like that too... lol... so there are similarities. Another time I knew, was when we went to Greece. I must have been about 18, and I would buy catalogues of museums, preferably those that had naked male statues, which are quite beautiful... I even managed to buy a postcard of an ityphallic faun (which means with an erection) and I must have had quite a jolly time reviewing those cards and catalogues.
So what's it like for you, Nikolai? Wink
#6
I just knew i was different did not find out (admit) i was gay until i was 25
#7
I was very lucky because my mom and sister accepted me straight away ,so i never had hard moments at home about it ,but i think i new i was gay since i was around 9 ,i had difficult time trying changing my desire during my teens years,so when i was 18 i finally decided to gave up and let my nature follow his course ,in my case i think was more a big deal for me than anyone else ! i was afraid to change,to become afeminate or even start to enjoy women things, it sounds stupid today but when i was teen in my country the only gays you could have as reference was the very camp ones on the street and i couldn´t identify myself to them! Thanks god we are now going to a better understanding days ,and so many celebrities getting out of the closet helps straight people to understand that we are so diverse like any other kind of people !
#8
stevecavalcanti Wrote:I was very lucky because my mom and sister accepted me straight away ,so i never had hard moments at home about it ,but i think i new i was gay since i was around 9 ,i had difficult time trying changing my desire during my teens years,so when i was 18 i finally decided to gave up and let my nature follow his course ,in my case i think was more a big deal for me than anyone else ! i was afraid to change,to become afeminate or even start to enjoy women things, it sounds stupid today but when i was teen in my country the only gays you could have as reference was the very camp ones on the street and i couldn´t identify myself to them! Thanks god we are now going to a better understanding days ,and so many celebrities getting out of the closet helps straight people to understand that we are so diverse like any other kind of people !

Precisely, Steve.... Confusedmile:
#9
There's been times when I've found both men and women attractive, but I really knew that I liked guys more because i realized they were much easier for me to fall for and have a crush on
#10
EEEEHHHHH....UUUHHHHMMMMM....I don't know, really i don't or maybe i do know and I'm just playing coy, but maybe i'm not an i really don't know...who knows :confused:

sorry i guess that doesn't answer your question.


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