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Think I found the one
#1
I think I have found the perfect guy for me, we chat everyday and he makes me so happy. The only problem is I can be too clingy and don't want to scare him away! For example he's working tonight and hasn't returned my text yet and my mind goes into overdrive and I think he doesn't want me, my senseable side of my mind tells me he's busy. It's been a while since I have felt like this about anyone. Need to stop being clingy though.
An eye for an eye
#2
That's really great Dan! At least you recognise you think you're being clingy (I think this is natural until the initial 'glowy period' settles down a bit) so you can stop yourself from doing anything too off-putting. Just try to enjoy it, and he probably is just busy at work. I know in my job I hardly ever get chance to see my phone or reply to people. Just ride out this period while your hormones are all swirly-whirly and build strong foundations for a great relationship Smile And big congrats Smile
#3
Dan1980 Wrote:I think I have found the perfect guy for me, we chat everyday and he makes me so happy. The only problem is I can be too clingy and don't want to scare him away! For example he's working tonight and hasn't returned my text yet and my mind goes into overdrive and I think he doesn't want me, my senseable side of my mind tells me he's busy. It's been a while since I have felt like this about anyone. Need to stop being clingy though.

Been there, done that. I know pretty much how you feel and I tend to be the same...when I really like someone. So you have a big crush on the guy. Crushes are awesome and awful at the same time, they can get you in trouble. It easier said than done to "just chill." My advice, find more distractions so you aren't consumed by thinking about him all the time. Listen to your sensible side. Take the slow ride, enjoy getting to know the guy and as long as you are willing to take the time with him things might blossom into something very good.
#4
congrats .. congrats .. !! .. happy for you Dan! ..
#5
Congratulations Dan I'm so happy for you.
#6
Nice one Dan Smile. Enjoy, and I hope things work out for you both Smile
#7
Happy for ya! Like its been stated, glad you can recognize your clinginess (not sure if that's a word lol). Just keep cool and have fun😊
#8
I'm happy for you! So nice to hear good news. Elefant
"That's just the way it is
Some things will never change
That's just the way it is
Ah, but don't you believe them..."
~~~~~~~~Bruce Hornsby,, "That's Just The Way It Is"
#9
Very happy for you. Congratulations Smile wishing you the best
“Why is a raven like a writing-desk?”  [Image: 1f3a9.png]
#10
He's just busy m8. Go take a cold shower xD
And good luck and congrats Smile


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