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can you be gay without anal ?
#1
Is it possible to be gay without anal sex and use other methods for love, sex and such ?

My friend thinks they are gay but mentioned they would not do that.

Open to all feedback.
#2
Yes. Just as it is possible to be straight without vaginal intercourse.

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#3
colinmackay Wrote:Yes. Just as it is possible to be straight without vaginal intercourse.
just let them do what they want, dont listen to him
#4
Can you be gay without butt seks
YES! I'v met many homos who hate it. I'm pretty sure they are still gay.
#5
mc888 Wrote:Is it possible to be gay without anal sex and use other methods for love, sex and such ?

My friend thinks they are gay but mentioned they would not do that.

Open to all feedback.

YES! That is just one sexual act. Kissing and BJ's some are into only. There are also many other ways for them to get off without having anal sex.
#6
That's a weird thought to me. I mean, I suppose it's possible, but straight without vaginal and gay without anal just seems lacking to me.

I mean, all that's left then is oral. Or anal if you're straight, but I doubt they'd go for it if they won't do vaginal.

Might as well be abstinent
#7
Thank you. Such various replies. And seeing I have a vag and I did try Anal, there is no comparison and I didn't enjoy it. whats wrong with oral ? The only straight couple I know not having inter.... is either over 55 or are getting a divorce (or the marriage of convenience bs). Thanks again, I can tell him there is hope.
#8
ZackT Wrote:That's a weird thought to me. I mean, I suppose it's possible, but straight without vaginal and gay without anal just seems lacking to me.

I mean, all that's left then is oral. Or anal if you're straight, but I doubt they'd go for it if they won't do vaginal.

Might as well be abstinent

I'd just like to point out that attempting to delegitimize people's sexual practice, whether it be a preference for only frot, oral, or manual sex is just as bad as anti-gay people who try to delegitimize anal sex on the grounds of it being unnatural or unhealthy.

Actual studies on gay sexuality have found that anal sex only really became perceived as the status quo sexual act of gay men with the rise of pornography in the 70s. Before then the few studies on gay sexuality seem to suggest that many gay men preferred not to perform anal. And a lot of studies have been done on gay men who feel like they are pressured into participating in anal sex despite not enjoying it, because they feel like they will lose partners if they don't.

I'm not out to convince people not to participate in anal (there are gay groups out there that do this), I fully embrace the viability of any expression of sexuality between consenting individuals. Let's not become complicit in the same kind of fascism that categorized any same sex behaviour as "sodomical" for centuries.
When a subject is highly controversial — and any question about sex is that — one cannot hope to tell the truth. One can only show how one came to hold whatever opinion one does hold. One can only give one's audience the chance of drawing their own conclusions as they observe the limitations, the prejudices, the idiosyncrasies of the speaker.
- Virginia Woolf
#9
its the sex of the gods

no im kidding

noel coward a gay hated it
#10
A lot of gay guys don't have anal sex.


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