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  Brotherhood (Broderskab)
Posted by: Gpbi - 07-06-2011, 11:48 PM - Forum: Gay-Movies - Replies (7)

I just watch this movie and i think is really amazing!!
Is about 2 man falling in love while they are members of a Neo-Nazi group, in Denmark

I think is a really good movie showing how love is can be found even there where is supposed to be forbidden! Also i loved it the end cause it actually give you the option to choose what you expect it will happend and give your own end of theirs story
Warning: you may need pack of tissues, i cried a lot!


Let me know your opinion about the movie

Thats the trailer



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  Whats Ur Top Gay Themed Movie List !? :P
Posted by: Lonely - 06-28-2011, 03:51 PM - Forum: Gay-Movies - Replies (39)

this is the list of my most favorite gay themed movies Big Grin

1-un amour a taire (one of the best french movies ive ever watched)




2-Lilies (a bit old but still awesome Big Grin great story and acting and i totally love the music too)




3-I love you Phillip Morris Big Grin




4-Prayer for Bobby (made me cry like a baby :$)




so what about ur list Wink

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  Education key in HIV, AIDS prevention, 30 years later
Posted by: Marvinteck - 06-20-2011, 10:47 PM - Forum: Gay-News - Replies (2)

http://www.thesunnews.com/2011/06/20/222...unity.html

Education key in HIV, AIDS prevention, 30 years later
By Brad Dickerson
Brian Hardee wanted to educate other college students about the importance of getting tested for HIV, so he went through the steps himself and presented it as a series of informative speeches.

No one in his speech class will probably ever forget the last one.

"The final speech was how I took the news after the news came back I was HIV positive. So, that's how I found out," Hardee said. "Let's just say I made a 100 in that speech class."

The Myrtle Beach resident was diagnosed with the disease in 1994 while he was a student at the American College for the Applied Arts in Atlanta.

Today, Hardee considers himself a medical miracle. A combination of strong medication and a lifestyle change that included kicking a 10-year drug habit has given him a healthy immune system and longer life than those who were diagnosed with HIV in its early days.

Experts say these stronger drugs are both a blessing and a curse in 2011, 30 years since the first documented cases of Acquired Immune Deficiency Syndrome, or AIDS, in the United States. Those who are diagnosed are living longer, healthier lives, but it's also creating complacency and apathy in the younger people who now find themselves at risk.

The Los Angeles Times reported that AIDS has killed nearly 30 million people worldwide, including an estimated 500,000 in the United States. Today, another 34 million people - including nearly 1.2 million in the U.S. - are living with the virus that causes the disease, human immunodeficiency virus, or HIV. This year, about 1.8 million of them will die, including about 17,000 in this country.

By the end of 2010, there were 736 known HIV/AIDS patients living in Horry County, according to statistics from the S.C. Department of Health and Environmental Control. There are 356 who have AIDS.

Homosexual males represented the largest number in both categories, with 316 living with HIV and 158 who have AIDS. Heterosexuals and those whose cause was undetermined are the second- and third-largest groups.

Johanna Haynes, executive director of Careteam, an outreach group that provides medical care for HIV and AIDS patients in Horry, Georgetown and Williamsburg counties, said more than half the new cases she sees are heterosexuals.

At the same time, while infection rates among gay men had declined over the past 15 years, infections among gay men between the ages of 16 and 24 have started to climb again.

"It's that group of people that didn't watch their friends die," Haynes said.

Boxing up lives

Hardee saw the ravaging effects AIDS had among some of his friends while living in Atlanta.

The tragedy of watching them succumb to the disease was compounded by cleaning out their apartments once they were gone.

"I cleaned their lives out, the ones who their parents had disowned them, No. 1, because they were gay, and then when they found out that they were dying ... they were just swept to the side," Hardee said.

Hardee credits his family and an HIV-free partner for supporting and loving him for almost 20 years as he's lived with the disease.

He never saw the diagnosis as a death sentence, but rather a chance to be of service.

"I've never been dying with this, I've always been living with it," Hardee said. "I am very positive about being positive."

He got involved with fundraising efforts in Atlanta. At one point, Hardee and other HIV-positive, 9-5 guys formed a drag group whose sole purpose was to entertain people and raise money. Some years, Hardee said they'd bank more than $1 million dollars to benefit HIV and AIDS patients.

The pain of drugs

The Los Angeles Times reported that at least 30 different drugs are now commercially available to combat HIV. "Cocktails" of these drugs have transformed the disease from a death sentence into something manageable.

But some drugs have side effects.

Hardee said one switch in medicine caused chronic diarrhea. Other side effects include night sweats and vomiting.

Haynes said some patients kick those reactions in three or four weeks. For others, it's a part of life.

Then there are those whose livers are adversely affected, or they develop heart disease.

"We're seeing some of that now, after people have been on medications for a long time and they're having other issues," Haynes said. "Brian's one of the lucky ones who's not affected by that."

Hardee is classified as having undetectable traces of HIV in his body. He said that means the virus is still present, but it's so low there isn't a measurement for it.

Hardee explained it's measured on T-cells, the body's white blood cells that fight off disease. His tend to stay in the 400 to 500-range, a very strong count.

"Below 200 is full-blown," Hardee said. "So, once you go below 200, that just means that you're pretty much susceptible to just about anything. It means your immune system is just depleted."

His strong immune system is even more impressive because of his past drug abuse.

When he moved back to Myrtle Beach from Atlanta four years ago, Hardee sobered up. To hear him tell it, no substance went untried.

"A,B,C,D through Z," he said. Crystal meth was the drug of choice, and Hardee admitted some were taken intravenously.

His habit didn't form out of self-pity over his illness, but rather an active social life.

"Gay life is nightlife," Hardee said. "In a big city, it's all about going out."

An addict with no job and no insurance was what Careteam got when they took Hardee in with what he called "open arms."

Life on the Grand Strand

Today, Hardee is clean and sober and working as a designer in Myrtle Beach.

Since getting involved with Careteam, he has also continued his outreach.

Each year, Hardee hosts the organization's dining-with-friends event and walks in a pair of high heels for the annual AIDS walk.

And he's doing it all with a very good immune system, courtesy of strong drugs that make living with the disease possible.

It's those strong drugs that Hardee and others feel are creating an attitude that people don't have to worry about it if they do contract HIV.

"I've actually heard that before, and I'm like, 'You're so, so, so sadly mistaken,' " Hardee said. "Don't be like me, going on 20 years of taking pills every single day."

Haynes said Careteam's biggest struggle is making people aware of what the risk is.

"We get the word out there, but I think when people hear the word HIV, they just kind of turn it off, because most people think 'HIV is not my problem. That's somebody else's problem. It's one of those people, it's not me,'" she said.

The biggest misconception about HIV has always been that it's just a problem in the homosexual community.

Hardee remembers when the disease was referred to as "gay men's cancer."

Haynes said HIV is a growing problem in the black community.

According to the Center for Disease Control, one in 16 black men and one in 30 black women will be diagnosed with HIV in their lifetimes.

Haynes added that 11 percent of all new infections are in white heterosexuals over the age of 50.

She said those most responsible for spreading HIV are those who have it and don't know it. Like Hardee in his college speech, she stresses the importance of getting tested. Today, those results are available within 10 minutes.

Hardee said he lives his life with an open-door policy, having never been a closeted homosexual or a closeted HIV patient.

It's a lifestyle choice that would probably make that college professor - who called his informative speech one of the most moving she'd ever heard in her class - willing to give him another 100.

"I've always been open and honest with everybody," Hardee said. "Hey, my name is Brian. I'm HIV positive. Let's get that out of the way."

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  Crush (2000) - short gay themed
Posted by: forbiddencrush - 06-19-2011, 05:34 PM - Forum: Gay-Movies - Replies (5)







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  Campfire (1999) - short gay themed
Posted by: forbiddencrush - 06-19-2011, 05:32 PM - Forum: Gay-Movies - No Replies







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  Cowboy (2008) - short gay themed
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  I don't want to go back alone (2010) - short gay themed
Posted by: forbiddencrush - 06-19-2011, 05:28 PM - Forum: Gay-Movies - Replies (2)

I don't want to go back alone (2010) - short gay themed






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  What do you think of this quote?
Posted by: Waylon777 - 06-13-2011, 05:07 AM - Forum: Everyday-Stories - Replies (13)

I've read an interesting quote that came up at the end of a movie that I watched half a year ago. The quote said,
"Peace cannot be kept by force. It can only be achieved by understanding."
What do you guys think of this quote?

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  Eastenders - Christian and Syed still upset the masses - or some of them at least.
Posted by: marshlander - 06-12-2011, 06:59 PM - Forum: Gay-News - Replies (3)

It's not a secret I enjoy watching the BBC's soap opera, "Eastenders". I've mentioned the ongoing relationship between Christian Clarke and Syed Masood in previous threads. Despite great advances in the law in the UK, cultural attitudes have yet to catch up. A recent episode which showed them together in bed brought in a "flood" of complaints (whatever constitutes a flood).

The full Guardian article is here, but this was the interesting conclusion

Quote:...the explicitness of a romantic scene is too often dependent on which genders are in it. A man eating a woman's face will go undetected, but if it happens to be another man, the BBC must brace itself. It's like maths for homophobes. One heterosexual heavy petting equals one gay peck. Or is it a cuddle? A brisk handshake? The EastEnders characters in question were simply holding each other in bed, but for some an act otherwise seen as harmless, romantic even, was seen as harmful and perverse. It wasn't, it was said, an appropriate image for children. In contrast to the naturalness of straight relationships, it was something it needed to protect the innocent from.


These are not their children's thoughts of course but entirely their own. They, who deem noticing the existence of homosexuality as damaging, when it is in averting their child's gaze that they cause harm. Some of their children will be straight and left (at best) battling the confused ignorance their parent's special brand of "censorship come outrage" have bestowed them with. Others will be gay and, sunken within the tragedy of an unaccepting home, will be deprived the smallest escape of another world, of seeing a part of themselves on screen and knowing they are OK.


The snob may dismiss mainstream television as drivel but the power of it should not be. What we see on screen has an effect, and the more popular and widespread the programme, the greater this is. The complainers are right. What their children see does matter. This is the very reason the BBC should keep its nerve and refuse to pander to them.


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  Homophobes most aroused by gay porn
Posted by: marshlander - 06-12-2011, 06:45 PM - Forum: Gay-News - Replies (17)

... but then we suspected that all along didn't we!

http://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pubmed/8772014

A sample of men were classified according to the degree of their antipathy to homosexuality and subjected to gay male, lesbian and straight porn. The homophobes displayed arousal to the gay male porn while the non-homophobes displayed no arousal.

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