[img2=left]http://www.gayspeak.com/forum/images/news/rickymartin.jpg[/img2]The singer, most famous for his single Livin' La Vida Loca, told Hispanic magazine TV Aqui that his "heart could belong to a woman or a man".

His sexuality has been a topic of rumour for the past ten years, with various reports on his love life.

In 2005, he said: "I think that sexuality is something that each individual should deal with in their own way. And that’s all I have to say about that."

The singer is father to one-year-old twin boys born by a surrogate mother.

Police forces have been reporting a rise in homophobic hate crime. Scotland Yard suggests a 9% rise whilst in Greater Manchester the figure has gone up by a staggering 63% in the year to April.

Acting Detective Superintendent Gerry Campbell, of the Metropolitan police, who led a recent operation against hate crime, said: "Homophobia cannot be considered a thing of the past, it's on the increase."

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Be careful out there, folks :frown:

For the benefit of those who have not already heard..

The Supreme Court of California has ruled that Proposition 8 was indeed valid. Proposition 8 amended the State Constitution to define marriage as only being between one man and one woman, the Court having previously found that the ordinary statue law so defining marriage was contary to the State Consitution and struck it down. Proposition 8 did not affect the very extensive domestic partnership laws within California which give gay couples most (but not quite all) the rights of heterosexual couples. It appears that the fact that few specific practical rights (as opposed to the word marriage) were removed, was important in the Court's thinking.

On the other hand the court did rule that the marriages of the 18,000 or so couples that tied the not between the court legalising gay marriage and the people of California 'delegalising' it should remain valid.

For those of you who are interested you can read the ruling here. (I have to admit I have yet to summon the enthusiasm to read such a long document.)

[img2=left]http://www.gayspeak.com/forum/images/news/eminem2.jpg[/img2]Eminem has revealed that Elton John came to his aid during his addiction to painkillers.

According to the rapper, Sir Elton offered him advice on how to rid himself of the addiction which developed during his break from the limelight in 2005, when he temporarily quit the rap scene.

Speaking to the Detroit Metro Times, Eminem, 36, said of the singer: "Me and him have had similar lives and stuff. We became friends and I talk to him about things, career-wise. When I first wanted to get sober, I called him and spoke to him about it. He's somebody who's in the business and can identify and relate to the lifestyle and how hectic things can be."

Sir Elton, 62, has also recovered from his own drug problems, having checked into rehab in 1990 to recover from his addiction to drugs and alcohol.

Eminem continued: "He understands the pressure and any other reasons that you want to come up with for doing drugs."

The rapper's friendship with the openly gay music legend may surprise those familiar with his seemingly homophobic lyrics.

In a song entitled Criminal on his second studio album. The Marshall Mathers LP, Eminem's lyrics include: “My words are like a dagger with a jagged edge/ That'll stab you in the head, whether you're a fag or lez/ Or the homosex, hermaph or a trans-a-vest/Pants or dress? Hate fags? The answer's yes”.

Despite this, Sir Elton has performed with Eminem on stage, and defended his decision to do so. "I honestly don't think people will go out and start beating and killing people because of this album," he said. "It appeals to my English black sense of humour."

However, the Gay and Lesbian Alliance Against Defamation said in 2001 that Eminem's website was full of emails from fans railing against "sluts" and "faggots", including Sir Elton.

On his new album The Relapse, Eminem shows no sign of changing his lyrical style with lyrics such as these aimed at Lindsay Lohan and Samantha Ronson: “He does not mean to lesbian offend/ But Lindsay please come back to seeing men/ Samantha’s a 2, You’re practically a 10.”

Homophobic or not, Eminem may partly owe the success of his recent comeback to Sir Elton, one of showbusiness' the most vociferous supporters of gay rights.

[img2=left]http://www.gayspeak.com/forum/images/news/sfry.jpg[/img2]Stephen Fry has been named as the top celebrity choice to take over the role of Speaker of the House of Commons after Michael Martin was forced to resign this week over MPs' expenses.

Martin took 34 seconds to announce he was stepping down from the role on Wednesday. A number of MPs had openly criticised him for failing to grasp public opinion on the scandal.

A survey of 2,000 people found that veteran broadcaster Fry, who gave his own opinion on the scandal this week, was the top man for the job.

It's not the first time Fry has topped such a poll - in April, he was voted as the preferred patron saint of England.

Jeremy Clarkson came in second place, with Jeremy Paxman and Anne Robinson following. Voters evidently felt a touch of humour was necessary in the Commons, judging by the number of comedians in the top ten.

Chatshow host Jeremy Kyle was ranked sixth, with Jonathan Ross at number ten.

The list in full:
1. Stephen Fry
2. Jeremy Clarkson
3. Jeremy Paxman
4. Anne Robinson
5. John Cleese
6. Jeremy Kyle
7. Russell Brand
8. Janet Street Porter
9. Jimmy Carr
10. Jonathan Ross

[img2=left]http://www.gayspeak.com/forum/images/news/jlown.jpg[/img2]The mayor of San Angelo, Texas, has resigned just ten days after a landslide re-election victory to pursue his relationship with his gay partner, an illegal immigrant.

J W Lown was elected in 2003 as the city's youngest ever mayor at the age of 32. He has been re-elected three times, gaining 89 per cent of the latest vote, held ten days ago.

He told the San Angelo Standard-Times he fell in love with his partner in March, after he announced he would be standing for re-election.

It is thought the unnamed Mexican man had a student visa which has now expired.

Lown said he had chosen not to take the oath of office while “aiding and assisting” a person who was illegally in the country.

“I made the final decision when I knew it was the right decision to make for me and my partner and our future - and for the community,” he said.

He added he planned to stay in Mexico to try to obtain a visa so that his partner can return with him if “the people of San Angelo will welcome me back.”

Lown officially tendered his resignation via a letter delivered to city manager Harold Dominguez this week.

“While I know that the timing of this announcement is less than ideal, I have my own compelling reasons for making this decision,” he wrote. “I have made thousands of decisions on behalf of our community, and I weighed this decision in the same manner that I approached other decisions.”

Even if Lown married his partner by proxy in a state that allows gay marriage, the federal government does not recognise same-sex marriages for immigration purposes.

[img2=left]http://www.gayspeak.com/forum/images/news/testube.jpg[/img2]A new HIV test which takes only 20 minutes to deliver a result is now available on the NHS.

Previously, those wishing to take an HIV test had to wait a week for their results.

The new test, which uses a special absorbent toothbrush to collect saliva samples from the mouth, was found to be as effective as a blood test.

It has been introduced at Barts and the London NHS Trust in London, where doctors expect to carry out around 250 tests a month.

Merie Symonds, head of sexual health at the trust, said: "Approximately a third of people in the UK who are HIV positive are currently unaware of their condition.

"There are still very real problems due to people who are not testing until they have become unwell as a result of undiagnosed HIV infection. This means that treatment that is now widely available may not work as effectively.

"Making testing for HIV quicker and easier is a real step towards getting people to test sooner. As this test doesn't require us to take blood or send samples to a laboratory, we can begin to look towards testing outside traditional clinical areas.

"We are already offering this test to service users in some of our outreach services run in non-healthcare settings."

The test is currently being offered to all people from areas of high HIV prevalence and to men who have sex with men, in addition to those who are sexually active with either group.

Earlier this month, charity Unicef warned that Britain now has the highest number of new HIV infections in western Europe, with gay and bisexual men and black Africans most at risk.

In 2007, there were more than 7,700 new HIV diagnoses in the UK and the organisation has also said infection rates in young people are rising, with ten per cent of new infections occurring in those aged between 16 and 24.

The second highest figure for new infections was in France, with 4,075. Germany, which has ten million more people than Britain, had 2,752 new cases.

Four in ten of those diagnosed with the disease were men who have sex with men.

Hi all :redface:


soo... you all (or at least the users I chated with :biggrin: ) seems very nice and grown up and so on, so here is my question: What the hell is wrong with gays?


I'm chatting a bit on gayromeo (or planetromeo, if you want to call it that way). Is this site even known outside germany? Well... it's a site where you can chat with other gays around the world with private messages and so on...


well... first something to me: just moved to berlin a month ago, know nearly nobody here and want to meet some people to make friends. I'm not really looking for a relationship. Have just broke up with my ex. And I'm not looking for sexdates. I'm not in the mood and had enough of that stuff when i was younger (yes, i made a lot of mistakes in my life...).

Okay. I start chatting with a guy. It starts out really nice. Talking about all stuff. movies, the weather, tv, music, how we are, what we're doing. It works out really nice and I start thinking "okay, we understand each other, the chemistry seems to fit, maybe I'll meet him for a coffee or something." and than it happens: he asks me "What do you like?" I get skeptical, but okay, I answer it by telling him my hobbies, my favourite music artist and so on. But the reply just is: "No. I mean in the bed."


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Why does nearly every conversation I start leads to sex? :confused: I don't want this to happen! I'm not sending out any signals no hidden double-meaning or something like that. Even those who say in their profile that they have a partner are starting to talk me into having sex with them... I just hate it and makes me sick and sad. (Yeah. my ex cheated on me too....)

So... is something wrong with me or with them? And happens this only in germany? Are gays around the world are all the same?

Please help me :frown:

The impending Equality law will make it illegal for religious groups to discriminate against gay employees. It's a bold move which changes past practice and as far as I can see is a welcome addition to the move towards equality of the past few years. (more)

A 47 year old man has narrowly missed being sent to prison for setting up a vigilante group to catch gay men cruising in Lincolnshire. Colin Haw and his more-scary-than-merry men dressed in combats and balaclavas and videoed the action which he then posted on a website, often to the accompaniment of music like YMCA or The Teddy Bears' Picnic. His hobby came unstuck when he filmed a motorcyclist taking a leak and published this to his website.

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Haw misguidedly considered himself to be acting in the public interest, but he failed to take into account that by taking videos of people engaged in "private acts" he was actually breaking the law himself. That he went after men having sex with other men and did not pursue heterosexual couples at dogging sites substantiated accusations of homophobic bullying. Under the circumstances I am reluctant to suggest that Mr Haw should get out more, but wouldn't he be better advised to pursue a more fulfilling hobby?