Just curious when you first realised you were gay or bi? (had an attraction to the opposite sex)

Poll is anonymous!

Around 8 or 9 was when I first developed an interest in a boy in my school. As as soon as I realized it, I got scared. I was very little.

I voted 6, but it was actually around 10 ! Had crushes towards different classmates in my class.

Although I wasn't sure at that time, thinking that I might just envy them as they were good at sports and had a nice body, I never completely ruled out this possibility.

@seeking Mine was young too (5) but just a man crush! LOL

I was too heavy in denial to admit it, I want to say i was maybe 9 or so, but I had no idea what the feelings were, I just knew I was different.

(06-19-2020, 05:47 PM)andy Wrote: @seeking Mine was young too (5) but just a man crush! LOL

By man crush you mean you already had crushes on grown men ? lol

I think I also had it...but I forgot when did it start. I enjoyed too much watching those half-naked action movie heroes in action 

I selected 11. That's when I realised I had a crush on my older sister's boyfriend 

When I was young, the show Gilligan's Island was popular in reruns. The big debate was always "Ginger or Mary Ann".  I remembered hearing that debate and thinking:  I'd like to hang with the Professor!

(06-20-2020, 06:57 AM)LJay Wrote: Seems like I must have answered this before either here or somewhere else...but I think it was about 9, maybe 8, that I knew what I wanted.  Yeah, the Professor was cool but I actually met Gilligan and he was cool too.  Anyway, that was then and that was a long time ago in some terms.  The late 50's/early 60's was a very different time.  I do wonder what it would have been if it had been the time around 2015 or so.

Maybe some one here can say??

I was 16.