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How to Confront Tall Guys
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Gilhooly:

Thanks gilhooly for the compliment. I didn't see that coming. Thanks.

I maybe small but well defined and muscular. I climb my office building's emergency staircase from ground floor to the 30th three times a week. Carrying dumbbells. I used to do it everyday but without dumbbells.

SleepTalker, dfiant and Inchante:

I believe another factor why guys particularly tall and big guys make me nervous is due to my once upon a time 'anti social' life. Five years ago (2005), I was a morbid obese lad. I got bullied a lot during those years.

In order to give 500% towards weight loss, I shut myself from the public for a few years. It was only me, my house and the jogging park. I returned to the society on 2009.

From 2009 - mid 2011, I was a confident guy. I didn't have problem communicating with my colleagues and clients but I became defensive, shy and a bit vulnerable when I was outside of my circle of trusted friends. Flirtation, being approached by guys etc. all these were culture shock to me.

I have drastically improved a lot by mid 2011. Something happened on May/June that pretty much knocked my head off. I am now more open, approachable and spontaneous in public. Admittedly I am still a bit shy towards guys who come and approach me. But not terribly shy as I used to.

Thanks for responding gilhooly, SleepTalker, dfiant and Inchante.
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Messages In This Thread
How to Confront Tall Guys - by Jay - 09-17-2011, 01:50 PM
How to Confront Tall Guys - by Almac - 09-17-2011, 02:46 PM
How to Confront Tall Guys - by Gpbi - 09-17-2011, 03:27 PM
How to Confront Tall Guys - by Marvinteck - 09-17-2011, 03:55 PM
How to Confront Tall Guys - by Jay - 09-17-2011, 04:37 PM
How to Confront Tall Guys - by gilhooly - 09-17-2011, 09:01 PM
How to Confront Tall Guys - by SleepTalker - 09-17-2011, 10:34 PM
How to Confront Tall Guys - by dfiant - 09-17-2011, 11:18 PM
How to Confront Tall Guys - by Inchante - 09-18-2011, 12:36 AM
How to Confront Tall Guys - by Jay - 09-18-2011, 04:14 AM
How to Confront Tall Guys - by OrphanPip - 09-18-2011, 04:42 AM
How to Confront Tall Guys - by Jay - 09-18-2011, 04:53 AM
How to Confront Tall Guys - by OrphanPip - 09-18-2011, 05:07 AM
How to Confront Tall Guys - by posterpicture - 09-18-2011, 05:31 AM
How to Confront Tall Guys - by Waylon777 - 09-18-2011, 05:47 AM
How to Confront Tall Guys - by Jayd - 09-18-2011, 05:50 AM
How to Confront Tall Guys - by Marvinteck - 09-18-2011, 06:31 AM
How to Confront Tall Guys - by Jay - 09-18-2011, 12:36 PM
How to Confront Tall Guys - by Rawr - 09-18-2011, 02:45 PM
How to Confront Tall Guys - by beht - 09-19-2011, 01:42 AM
How to Confront Tall Guys - by Jay - 09-19-2011, 01:23 PM
How to Confront Tall Guys - by Rawr - 09-19-2011, 04:11 PM
How to Confront Tall Guys - by Jay - 09-21-2011, 02:24 PM
How to Confront Tall Guys - by chicagostyle - 09-21-2011, 04:12 PM

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