09-21-2011, 09:09 PM
Yes I knew about child molesters often having been molested, again, it's not innate to molest children then, just a learned pattern from what you've been subjected to as a child, and grow up to believe is normal and acceptable behaviour, I get that. Not sure I can believe in this assertion however:
"I've also met many bisexual men that never had a gay experience in their lives become bisexual after they tried male sex. They weren't "born that way" it was a conscious choice they made."
They may have made a conscious choice to act out on their gay impulses at last, but it doesn't mean the seed to be or act gay wasn't there from the start. Again, it depends what kind of soil that seed was put in and whether it was allowed to grow or not. It's like atavism or talent. If you don't nurture some parts of what makes you you, it might never appear to exist. To take this example further, although I'm probably fertile to procreate, I won't have children owing to the fact that I haven't planted my seed in soil, or the right soil. And even if I have, it's not been nurtured to grow to become a child. But it doesn't mean that my seed doesn't exist from the onset.
"I've also met many bisexual men that never had a gay experience in their lives become bisexual after they tried male sex. They weren't "born that way" it was a conscious choice they made."
They may have made a conscious choice to act out on their gay impulses at last, but it doesn't mean the seed to be or act gay wasn't there from the start. Again, it depends what kind of soil that seed was put in and whether it was allowed to grow or not. It's like atavism or talent. If you don't nurture some parts of what makes you you, it might never appear to exist. To take this example further, although I'm probably fertile to procreate, I won't have children owing to the fact that I haven't planted my seed in soil, or the right soil. And even if I have, it's not been nurtured to grow to become a child. But it doesn't mean that my seed doesn't exist from the onset.