11-27-2011, 12:32 AM
Well at least you didn't have 10+ years committed here, you two living together, with everything owned by 'Us' thus making for a horrendous 'divorce'.
Betrayal of trust is one of the more difficult of emotions to get 'over', most of us think we are over it, but discover that in reality its always there, affecting every part of the relationship.
You are most likely right, this would make it too hard to stay together, you will never be 100% certain he is being honest/trustworthy. Trust me, you do not want to be in a relationship where you are constantly second guessing what he says is 'truth'.
Betrayal of trust is one of the more difficult of emotions to get 'over', most of us think we are over it, but discover that in reality its always there, affecting every part of the relationship.
You are most likely right, this would make it too hard to stay together, you will never be 100% certain he is being honest/trustworthy. Trust me, you do not want to be in a relationship where you are constantly second guessing what he says is 'truth'.